are you a cool aunt?

me and my niece - this is one of my nieces..
we usually surf the net together.
we take pictures almost everyday just to have fun..
then we laugh at our pictures afterwards..
then we delete the ugly ones and upload nice pics on friendster..
Philippines
July 22, 2007 10:12pm CST
how's it going with your nephews and nieces? are you the cool aunt who goes out with them and have fun? or are you strict aunt who tells them to stay home and spend time with their families during weekends?
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@riri0322 (34)
• United States
24 Jul 07
I am the cool Aunt. I am the one who goes and takes them every other weekend and we do all the movies, theme parks and stuff. That is as long as they maintain a clean room. I am the neat freak whereas my sister is not and this is how it works best for the kids. They get to do fun things with me, if they maintain a clean room.
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@trinihd (996)
• United States
24 Jul 07
It's very cool that you are teaching them good habits! I wish I had had someone like that! lol I might be neater than I am now! As it is, the nieces or nephews can't really spend time in my room because there is too much clutter...they don't mind it, but it's not very conducive to any kind of fun activity...! lol
• Canada
23 Jul 07
Unfortunately because of the distance I don't get to see my nieces and nephews that often, but when I do see them, they think I'm cool. My Aunt Nancy was always cool, she still is...and I always promised myself that if I ever became an aunt, I would be cool like my Aunt Nancy.
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• Philippines
23 Jul 07
hoooraaayy!!! to US cool aunts!!!
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@trinihd (996)
• United States
24 Jul 07
I don't take them out a lot...because of time constraints but I do try to make our times together as much fun as possible! I like to think I am one of the coolest if not *the* coolest! There was a time when they would rush to greet me when I got home from work! I thought that was pretty cool. lol
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
yeah, it feels great when these kids look up to you and at the same time treat you as one of their closest friend.
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• United States
25 Jul 07
I think im a little of both when it comes to my niece i have taken her to experience many of her first in her life as i have also had to discipline/scold her as well, i am always fun first but if need be i have no problem laying down the law!
• United States
26 Jul 07
I'd like to think I'm the cool Aunt, but don't we all ;) Although my niece and nephew live about 2 hours away from me, I make up for it by calling them often. Also, for special occasions I send them packages in the mail. There is nothing my nephew likes more than seeing something in the mail addressed to him! (he's 5). For instance, he is beginning kindergarden this year and so I sent him a 'new to school' care package in the mail. It had books about the first day of kindergarden, school supplies, a spidey lunch box with matching ice pack and water bottle, etc. I also go out of my way to get them special gifts for their birthdays and holidays. In the slew of storebought generic blah toys they get, they always get something from me that is either handmade by me, handmade by someone else whom ive purchased it from, customized (with their name, favorite colors, etc), or something I've special ordered online. They both also have quilts that I made them when they were born. Both of them still sleep with the quilts and for a while my nephew wouldn't go on a car trip without his :)
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
31 Jul 07
Hey I am not a aunt. But my aunt is cool shez great.and she likes taking photo graphs.... You are wrong to post this. I mean asking for self-discription. YOu must ask this question to nephews and nieces.