Trying To Be Civilized!
July 23, 2007 8:03am CST
Well, A long story short: I was trying to help a gielfriend who was going through a divorce out so I allowed her to live in my appartment rent free. I also drove her around everywere as she had no car and I would take her 16 & 14 year old son and daughter shopping. Then she asked me to loan her 500 dollars and I did. I never got the money back. Within 1 month of living with me her husband told her he liked me and wanted to persue a relationship with me ( I HAD NO CLUE THIS WAS GOING ON) and all hell broke loose. Suddenly I became a home destroying, man Stealing B..ch and she threatened to go tell people at my work and ruin mylife. In the end she and her husband fell madly back inlove with each other and I offcourse was the evil witch as she poisoned her childrens heads about me. So I deleted these people from my life, as they are ovbiously trash, and within 1 year I found the love of my life, married him and we are currently happily married and pregnant. Over the weekend I get an email from this lady husband-I dont know how he got through because him and his wife are both blocked- anyhow he was wondering how I was? What would you do and say?
23 Jul 07
I will tell them to F**K OFF! Better not answer the email. Delete it! it's one of those spam emails..it will give ur pc a virus...hehehehe.. like they did to you before. You don't need people like that in your life, and you're best of without them. They're bored and living unhappily, they just want to bug other people. People like them don't deserve a friend like you or shall i say any friend at all. And about your $500, you won't get it back, am sure, so just think that you donated it to a charity. Take care :)
23 Jul 07
Believe me I would have replied with a bomb in my email if I could but I decided to ignore him and her. That was hard learned lesson in life and believe it or not the 500 dollars mean nothing to me. Though I feel I was scammed and abused I am happy thats really all I lost in that mess. Why do people like that exist?
24 Jul 07
I dunno why people like that exist in the world...maybe they're born like that. Or maybe they had a bad and unhappy childhood life that they want others to experience what they'd experienced too. What's sad is that they were your friends and you trusted them, instead they did horrible thing to you. It makes you mad knowing people like them exist, but sometimes it makes you thankful as well, because they make you realize who are your real friends are. At least you've dicovered the real them, before they could have caused you more damage and pain.
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23 Jul 07
I would not respond to this email. It is hypocritical? First he falls in love, then he spits on you, and now he wants to know how you are? Guess they have some love problems again and he is going for a second go. This person do not exist for you and i advise you to keep it that way.
23 Jul 07
Its funny , I agree totally, I think they are struggling again and he wants a distraction perhaps. Mind you I never liked him and never told him I wanted to be in any relationship with him. The whole thing continues to puzzel me actually. I believe these 2 are scam artists and they think they can scam me out of more money as I never asked for my 500 dollars back the first time as I just wanted to get away from the hell they created in my life. Thank you for your input.
23 Jul 07
I think I would tell him that I was better off for not having pursued my relationship with his wife any further, and that I was now happy, although some $500 dollars shorter than previously, pregnant, and wanting to go on with my life, without their further involvement. End of story. Brightest Blessings.