The Gift(From me to you)
By 34momma
@34momma (13882)
United States
July 23, 2007 10:01am CST
Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.
One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.
His bed was next to the room ' s only window.
The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end.
They spoke of their wives and families, th eir homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.
Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the act ivity and color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.
Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.
Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind ' s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.
Days, weeks and months passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths onl y to f ind the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.
She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.
Slowly, painfull y, he p ropped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.
It faced a blank wall.
The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.
The nurse responded that the man was bli nd and could not even see the wall.
She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."
Epilogue:
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can ' t buy.
"Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present."
Please enjoy!
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3 responses
@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 Jul 07
I know many people have read it before. I have never seen it before and i just thought, wow i would love to know more people like that. the idea of someone caring about you so much that they would go out of there way to make you feel good and have those feelings of being apart of. just amazing
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 Jul 07
have faith and know that you are worthly of such a wonderful friendship. as you said let go and enjoy every single second of it rather it last for a moment or life time. as in the story every relationship we have is to teach us wonderful life lessons. and if you go through them with doubt and worry you miss that lesson. open up your whole self girl and enjoy. that is when you feel the blessings
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
23 Jul 07
These kinds of friendships are amazing. They are the kind that I strive for and they are very hard work, but definitely worth it.
I am building a friendship like this right now and it means so much to me, that I am kind of afraid to let go and enjoy it, for fear that something may go wrong.
But I can't allow myself to miss all the fun by worrying. Relationships are worth every tear shed.
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
23 Jul 07
That was a very beautiful story... beauty and happiness lies within... thanks for sharing
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@Geminigirl (1909)
• United States
23 Jul 07
OMG, thank you so much for sharing this. I am in tears. That was truly touching.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
23 Jul 07
I felt the same way when i read it. and I thought it would be cared to share with mylot friends. everyone one needs to be reminded, just because you can't see it, doen't mean that there isn't any beauty in the world. along with beautiful people
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@Geminigirl (1909)
• United States
23 Jul 07
You are so right. I am going to pass this along to some friends, because it is so beautiful.
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