loving someone who's inlove with somebody else

Philippines
July 23, 2007 12:16pm CST
Did you love someone who doesn't love you in return but instead that person loves somebody else? I did experience that and wow! It was so hard and painful because you were hoping that person will love you back. And the worst part was.... that person was in love with my closest cousin and that person was actually asking me to help him win my cousin's heart. Gosh! i was really broken hearted at that time and i felt like I was the ugliest person in the whole world because he didn't notice me when i was the one who's in love with him while my cousin was not interested with him. Hmmm...as time passed by i've realized that it was so funny because the guy and I were in the same situation...hahahha!! Because my cousin was not in love with him.
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4 responses
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
Yes,I've been in that situation.I was bitter for 6 mos hoping that he'll love me back after touching me.It was hard but now I found someone new and I intend to stay with him and love him for the rest of my life.
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• Philippines
27 Jul 07
but do you still think about the guy whom you used to love?
@soulist (2985)
• United States
23 Jul 07
I have been in love with someone who was in love with someone else. It's hard to deal with, but after a little bit of time I got over it and found someone new.
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• Philippines
24 Jul 07
yes, it was hard but as we go on with life we will discover that there's a big world out there and there is someone who is meant for us...
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@diannebcrs (1549)
• Philippines
25 Jul 07
yes, i ridiculously have! i'm in love with someone for, like, ten years now. and he still hasn't seen me in a different light because he simply thinks of me as a friend... huhu, or just an passing acquaintance. anyway, he's a childhood friend of mine - we grew up together.. our mom's are close budz.. we were close before too - as friends... but now - we're driven apart by time and distance. he's faraway now - in a different school, in a different city.. we don't get to communicate much anymore because we're busy with our own different lives.. i miss him so badly and i can't help but cry once in a while when i think about him.. i had tried giving him hints before that i'm in love with him.. so... i think he knows (or maybe not) but he sure is "dedma" about it.. for, like, a bazillion times it tore my heart into bits and pieces. as of the moment, i'm a kind of frustrated.. i know he can never love me.. simply as that.. yet it leaves me very much in distress.. i'm still hoping though.. that someday.. *sob!*
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
i'm still praying that he will. he's the love of my life.. and i'm not giving up on him, unless he tells me personally that he can't love me. i'm just that stubborn.. thanks. :)
• Philippines
25 Jul 07
hello! Don't give up Dee because you'll never know what's gonna happen next..maybe when the right time comes, you'll see each other again and then he will surprise you by saying he likes you or love you.
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@zoszos (1)
9 Mar 08
yes i've been in love with my partner for 20 years and we have 4 kids youngest is 11 years old and its been hard and it been bad somtimes i know he take me for granted and me alittle him to i do every thing in doors and work part time and i pay all my household bills and rent and kids things and he pays for the car and some house keeping money which changes if he is working long or short hours and i do not complain and i pay for all our food and he goes where he wants when he wants and i have to put up with that and last year he got in touch with a ex love that he was with afew years before me and they started emailing and texting and phoning and sending pictures to each other she married too and they did this behind our back my child saw a email from this person saying how much she loved him remembering being in bed with him and to listen to the song breath again by toni braxton and so on and then alittle while later i saw a email saying ring me i almost got court delecting your emails i will ring you at 5 love len and he went out about 4.40 that after noon and did'nt come home for two hours and his phone was enganged for all that time and he had sent 58 texts that day and been on the phone for 2 hours and then came in and was on his computer all night and the next day saw me on the computer and said whats wrong i said if you do'nt know i am not tell you he went out for hours and then he came back with flowers and i said i did'nt want them he said why i told him i knew he tryed to deni it and said he had done nothing wrong i said so why hide it and why say your so confused and all the old feeling and that your so in love with her and she's the love of he's life and he's so interested in every thing she does and she's made so much of her self and that it was so good and everthing when i know it was'nt he was in love with her she was the local bike i know as my then husband was having it with her and most of poplar to and that she had to move because of my partner and lots of the other mens wife girlfriend wanted to kill her she thought she was something special even then she was a dog and we spilt for a while and i took him back for the kids but i wish i did'nt as he thinks he did nothing wrong and he mean to me and i think he still talks to her because he will not let his phone out of his sight and he blames me for every thing and things are bad and i have had enough and am i mad has he done nothing wrong please help me is this in my head should i keep wasting my time loving someone that clearly inlove with someone else