The rights to Our Opinions, and too grieve

Sweetheart ignore the Person please even better do not even respond to this Person as the more we do the more this Person will have a go There are evil People on here and I have been attacked believe me and a lot of my other Friends to so just ignore this Person Sweetie as we will be behind you all the way and support you against this Person Big Hugs to you

I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the pain you must be suffering. Just ignore these unfeeling people. They are making a very bad karma for themselves and I have witness that what goes around comes around.

Oh god I'm so sorry. People can be cruel! BTW.. I don't think that seeking counseling is a horrible idea but that is not meant in any negative kind of way. I too have lost a baby only it was much earlier then you so I can't imagine your loss, I really can't! My babys heart stopped beating at the end of my first trimester and I had to have surgery too. I also had another miscarriage but it didn't have the same effect as the other. The first, I had time to grow very attached and have wishes and hopes and dreams. I have not yet looked at the pic of your daughter but I will. I am sure she is beautiful! BTW!!!!! People are going to say some really mean things that they think will help. Some will have super good intentions but the stuff that comes out of their mouth.. you'll be thinking.."uhh, and this is supposed to help, you moron????"! But try to remember they really don't know what to say and feel helpless and really do want to help you. Of course there are others too that just don't give a crap and think you should just go back to your normal self like nothing has happened. You and your family are in my prayers during this difficult time. You'll get angry (as I'm sure you already know) and want to scream and not know what to do with yourself.. please come vent if you need to! You can send me a message anytime! I know you prob can't see the light at the end of the tunnel right now but keep on.. your love for your daughter will NEVER fade but I promise in time things will get a little easier. To anyone who EVER asks you if you are "over it" yet or anything to that nature... just tell them to screw off! HUGS!

OMG !!! What heartless sadistic people can be....How dare they...Surely they are not so niave to understand what you are going through.... I am deeply sorry for you loss and you grieve how ever you want to, dont be bullied by these a$$holes..Be strong and just know that you are better than these people...

Hi BlueAngelIRS! I am so sorry to hear about your daughter. I hope you can at least find solace that she is in a better place called Heaven and the angels are playing with her and keeping her company. I know how it feels to lose someone you truly love and deeply cared because lost my dear mother, you can never forget the pain but soon you will know how to deal with it. I know people can be so insensitive sometimes and would provoke you by saying rude comments, but there are still a lot who cares. I will be praying for you and I hope you'll find some peace in your heart despite of your pain.

Speaking ones thoughts and just plain being rude and hurtful are two different things. One can have an opposing veiwpoint without being just plain cruel. Anyone that shows anything short of sympathy and understanding to someone grieving the loss of a child is just ignorant. You are not wrong in being here telling your story at all. In fact i would imagine it would (or should) be quite therapeutic for you as well as some others who have had a similar experience. I had a miscarriage and it was not nearly as traumatic as what you have gone thru but I did find comfort in talking to others who had gone thru something similar. You are not in the wrong here....not at all. Hugs!

Oh Im so sorry for you losing your daughter. How terrible for you. I read what a couple of people said to you and they are right. Pay no attention to this person. I dont know her but I think she has been aggravating alot of people here. Everyone will have your back not to worry. Me included. I hope your feeling better about this. You will really enjoy here. Hugs to you I know to look at for her!LOL

Some are very cruel people, who have nothing better to do than to make other people's lives more miserable. You have the right to post about your daughter if you so chose to do so. We all grieve differently, just as we will talk about it differently when something is bothering us. Just do your best to ignore those who wish to cause you more grief. There are many others who will still listen.

I'm so sorry. At a time liket his, all the negativity and accusation is sorely out of place. Sure people on Mylot make up stories, but it is usually of a different nature. And it is obvious that you are having real pain for your gone, but not forgotten baby. Just know there are those of us who pray for you and wish you the absolute best. We care!