Did you feel of being deprive?

My wife enjoys complete freedom in my family. It is the same with me. We respect each other and love to make decisions together. We often go somewhere together. We don't hide anything from each other. Ours is a democratic family. Just show your hubby my response to your discussion and let him know that in China the majority of women are as free as men though there are some exceptions.

Why do you have to ask permission from your husband to visit with your friends and sister? Can't you just tell him what you are going to do? Your relationahip doesn't sound equal. Does he ask you permission to visit with his friends and family?

No- I don’t feel deprived- I pretty much do what I choose to do within reason- I don’t ask permission from anyone- except maybe work- to have a day off or something- : ) I talk it over with my family if I plan to go out with friends- or whatever-

Perhaps you should talk to him about it. I think it is okay if you shared your plans by saying, for example, "if you don't have any plans for us on Thursday night, I am going to visit my ___________". I don't think that you should have to ask his permission. If you do, I think that he is to controlling. By the way, does he ask you for permission? I think my suggestion should be used by both of you.

No, I don't have that feeling because we talk or discuss first the thing before I or we could conclude or have a final decission. I always include him or ask him even if it is just me needed on a certain occassion. We always go together to visit my family, attend their occassions, so there's no problem with that.

i am free like a bird.i don't want to care anybody.i am sinle so .i am free.i don't have any tensions,any worrys.or any thing.i love it very much. in ur case u have to ask ur husband permissions,don'r worry about it.why u should u depressied?,he is ur husband is it?,don't worry about that.be cool always..

Hello butterfly39. I wonder why you have to ask permission from him. Does he also ask permission of you when he wishes to go out? I don't see why there is any need in a relationship for one to control the other... You are ultimately in control of your own life. I feel that if you want to go out and see your friends and family you should be able to do it without asking permission. You are an adult. It is essential for your happiness that you see others outside of your marriage, otherwise you might turn out to be a very grumpy and bored person lol. I hope you do not give your husband control over you or you may never be fully happy.