which is harder to accept?

i find it harder to accept if i found out that my man had fallen out of love for me without any reason at all. this make me think that i am not capable of making him satisfied.

Usually, both happen at the same time - what came first the chicken or the egg...

I think the hardest would be for my man to tell me he found someone else.. That would make me feel just horrible, it would make me wonder what I did so wrong and of course I'd want to know them.. But if he were to tell me he's fallen out of love with me that I'd know he wasn't Mr. Right!!

I think both were painful, however my man to find another woman hurts more. If my man, fall out of love with me, i'll be thinking the relationship did not work out and we're really not meant for each other, i can let him go freely, but to think that my man fall in love with other woman is a hard thing, i might be thinking that there are some concerns my man did that's why he fell in love with other woman.

Hmmm... I'd say that he's found someone else is harder. Women are competative and I sure don't want some other girl taking MY man. If he's fallen out of love with me then at least I know it would be wrong for us both and can let him go too.

i think its harder to accept when he found someone. :