will you love someone who is 20 years older than you?

@rexiemay (401)
Philippines
July 27, 2007 9:24am CST
i havent had a boyfriend who is 20 years older than me. however, if i really love him, why not? love trascends age gap.
5 responses
@batpig (99)
• China
28 Jul 07
no problem for me at all...age is nothing comparing with love. feeling is the most important part in the involved relation...if you two can feel the same affection towards each other, why bother with the age...
• China
28 Jul 07
i am a 25 years boy.i can't image i get marry with a women with the age as the same as my mother.i think for girls,loving a man who is 20years older than them is nothing serious.but for boys,it's a thing can not be describe.
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
27 Jul 07
I would think that it would depend on the persons involved. I recently saw a news piece that said a lot of women in their 40-60+s are with younger men. My husband is 11 years younger than I am. We were both married before. I think we all have seen the older men with the "trophy" wives. These men usually have money and power. Not us!
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
27 Jul 07
I would think that it would depend on the persons involved. I recently saw a news piece that said a lot of women in their 40-60+s are with younger men. My husband is 11 years younger than I am. We were both married before. I think we all have seen the older men with the "trophy" wives. These men usually have money and power. Not us!
• United States
27 Jul 07
When I was in college, I dated a guy who was 8 years older than me, and thought it was so rebellious of me. Now, however, I don't really look at age as a deciding factor in who I associate with or love. My fiance is considerably younger than I am, and a few people have looked at us a bit oddly when they learn our ages (I look a lot younger than I am, so most people don't realize the age difference without being told). I was a little hesitant when we first started dating, because I didn't think it could work out, but we have turned out to be far more compatible than I we have been in any of our previous relationships.