what matters most: your "self" or your "love one"?

Philippines
July 27, 2007 9:18pm CST
for me, myself wouldnt really matter..id be happy to see my love happy - with me.. and if not with me, id be happy still knowing he's doing good.. martyrdom wont do.. but, thats the way i love, i care for him more than for myself.. sometimes maybe i ask him things to do for me or i myself asks him to take me out for a date.. well. someway, inspite and despite, atleast im happy knowing that im with him though i know for a fact it'll only last for hours and again, pain resides.. dramatically as it may seem, i just love..
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@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
1 Aug 07
You do have to put yourself first, as no one else will, when you do love someone truly you want them to be happy no matter what and it is very nice to think of them first but you must start thinking of you as No.1 always...