Would you forgive if they cheated on you?

United States
July 27, 2007 11:42pm CST
I am wondering how many of you would forgive your boyfriend/ girlfriend or spouse if they actually cheated on you. Or did they already? It is hard for me to tell how I would handle such a situation. I am married, and I almost think I would want a divorce if my husband ever cheated on me, even once. I don't know if I could move past it and forgive him. But like I said... hard to tell how I would act if it happened for real. How would you handle it if your bf, gf or spouse cheated on you?? Could you forgive them? What would you do?
3 responses
@dunnbiz (33)
• Indonesia
28 Jul 07
A man who can't forgive is a weak man. It takes courage to forgive. M.Gandhie says this. I am no Gandhie, however, betrayal i won't forgive.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
It's really hard to tell, but forgiving keeps our mind at peace. So I'd say that you forgive him, but i guess the next move would be up to you. If you want to keep your relationship intact, or maybe leave him then live your life as you want it to be. As for people who are into a bf/gf relationship, it's very different from those who are married. A girl or a guy can easily call their relationship "quits" because they still don't have any commitment with each other, where there are lots of complication for those who are married.
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
It depends, if I am in you're situation. . .i won't foregive him since he is doing it twice or many times already. . .it is already a big deal for me.