My friend may have raped me
@ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742)
Philippines
July 29, 2007 9:55am CST
A few nights ago, a really close friend of mine came very close to what I would call raping me. I mean, I was into talking to him at first, and I kissed him back, but he started going too far--and I was pleading with him to stop, pulling on his arms. The thing is, we were both drunk, and no one knows the whole story except me, and now everyone is mad at me because they think I seduced him. I am so scared to tell the truth because I don't want to hurt anyone anymore--I just want it all to go away.
what should i do?
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@earnprofit (34)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
Act as if nothing had happened. You cannot please everybody and I think it will be hard to explain to everyone what happened. You need nothing to explain, you know for yourself the real story. Never mind what they say, don't please them because you can't and you will not. Just learn to protect yourself next time ok? :) muah!
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@ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
anyway nothing happened and we were only drunk and its like they treat me so low and the thing is im not that kind of girl that they think i am it really hurts me bad
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@earnprofit (34)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
good thing nothing happened, but I think don't have to give the extra effort anymore to clear yourself, just let the time pass by for them to realize that your not that kind of girl they are thinking. That's the best you can do. In the end the truth will always come out.
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@ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
yes youre right thank you for that friendly response im trying to ignore the issues that go around sometimes
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@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
11 Jan 08
Why would your friends be mad at you? I'm not saying that you seduced him but if you did, is there anything wrong with that?! Tell it to your friends. If your friend who might have raped you isn't in a relationship or whatever, then there's no harm if you were able to seduce him.
Like you said, you didn't seduce him. The right thing for you to do is to be honest and tell your friends the truth. It's your story to tell and not for them to judge you directly. Nothing happened right? Then your definitely not guilty and your friends should know that.
-best of luck- take care
@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
11 Jan 08
Learn your lesson sis.. but it's so long ago! think you must now know what to do. am i right?
