Stuck in the middle of today and yesterday.

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I have been with my man for 6yrs when we got into the relationship he gave me the disclaimer that he was an asswhole.(Sorry about the language). I will admit that his honesty was a bit refreshing but to be honest he never treated my or acted like and as%$#ole toward me...So I really never thought anything of it... Well in time we decided to move in with eachother and I had his 1st daughter who is Ms. attitude herself. But things have slowly moved to getting worse he started treating me more of a live in maid and no matter that I worked he has gotten to the point where I have literally had to fight with him to do anything.. Mind you this wasn't always like this. since then we also have a 2nd daughter together.. Things just keep getting worse with his behavior. A behavior that has only occurred within the last four yrs and getting worse. For the last couple month I have gotten feed up with the behavior and been very distant myself. Today when he came home from work he stated that he was going to take the advice from some people that he got and stop being an as#$@ole toward me. I'm still waiting to see how long this will last and when the other shoe will drop so to speak. I'm also wondering what spurred him to speak with his coworkers about this.. The only thing I can think that would have spurred this was that I went to maryland on friday for an overnight to pick my brother up and bring him back ... But my best friend is male and we have been very close. I know that no matter what ever happens he would alwas be there for me and vice versa. I don't want my other half to change because he feels that if he does this for a few weeks that makes everything ok. I want an honest change. As a side not I would never cheat on him with my best friend because I have to many morals in place ...He new we were staying at my mom's place and I slept in my bro's bedroom while they slept on the couches downstairs. So I have no clue where and what he is or has been thinking about. I know that he complains to a mutual friend that i spend to much time with him, but I only see him once a week and usually on saturday around a group of people who come over and hang out... So it's not like one on one time when we go shopping at the malls that are anywhere from 1-2 hrs away..Which we haven't done and everytime I go out my other half always makes me take 1-2 kids with me. But yet he is able to go out and not take any kids. I just am frustrated to heck and back and don't know what to do or even how to handle it anymore. Any suggestions.