been betrayed by a friend?
By aikastacruz
@aikastacruz (187)
Philippines
July 31, 2007 11:15pm CST
i have this weird feeling i mean some kind of a intinct, that one of my so-called friend betrayed me for some reasons that i dunno, a weird feeling that something's been going on between her and my boyfriend.. i dunno, i dont wanna feel this thing anymore.. it &*(@$..
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5 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 Aug 07
Well put it this way, always listen to that inner voice you have, it is hardly ever wrong execpt in paranoid jealousy, and never nevertrust anyone even best girlfriends 100%, I have learnt from my own experiences eveyone is out for themselves and if a best friend wants your boyfriend they will make some excuse to make it ok in their mind, believe me... I had a very best friend do this to me years ago and her excuse was that it was my fault it happened because when you have a boyfriend you are supposed to give up your girlfriends but because i still invited her along at times that her the ok to go after him...be careful humans are weak and they make excuses, sad but true...
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 Aug 07
yes I know what your about, you have to be absolutely sure before you even let him suspect you have these doubts, there is nothing that will drive a love away faster than insecurity and jealousy so you have to keep your thoughts to yourself unless you have proof, I know it is hard but you must try...
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
its kinda awkward for me, because i dunno if its the right thing or the other way around... im afraid i might just screw our relationship off... do you get what im afraid of? im afraid of him getting mad at me..
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@alstaxidermy (269)
• United States
1 Aug 07
Listen to your instincts!!! I have never had a time in my life yet when my instincts where too far from wrong, but plenty of times when I didn't listen to them and ended up getting screwed! For whatever reason that you feel this way - whether it is her or him that have caused this feeling to creep into you - just lsiten to it. You will ultimately feel better sooner if you handle it now then if things carry on forever unresolved! Trust me, been there done that!
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
but when im trying to confront him he'd just say my instincts are far from the real instincts.. know what i mean? or yea maybe that girl's really making a fool outta me
@alstaxidermy (269)
• United States
2 Aug 07
No matter whatyou decide to do, stick with it! Should you confront him, have any facts at all handy and don't let him try and convince you that it is something else if it quite plainly isn't!
@satansoldat_666 (412)
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
It is very well a feeling and an instinct.I wouldnt suggest you deny or ignore it since i know women ha ve better intuition and feelings than men.There may be something else going on so i suggest you keep an eye out for him and ur friend...something may really be going on
@sr0415 (1140)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
Hi aikastacruz! If you're feeling that way, then maybe something fishy is really going on. But before you act "harshly", try to talk it over with your friend first. (Then also to your bf.) It's still a feeling, still UNCONFIRMED.
Never make any decisions when you are at the height of your emotions. Stay calm. And be neutral first. Think things before you act.
Best wishes. And I hope you'll be able to settle this issue. Take care and God bless! =)
