how to handle relationships?
August 1, 2007 1:00am CST
as a rookie in relationships, it's difficult for me to balance everything just to work things out. i tried everything that i could just to make my relationship a better one and not just to be like any other relationships that didn't last long because both of the partner didn't give their best shot. i know my partner did his part as well. but i guess it's still isn't enough. there are a lot of times we argued about stuffs that we can't agree with each other. but we always tried to fix things or give way when things seems getting worst. we don't want to let our emotions control us. maybe being into a relationship is always on a test. it doesn't matter how long you've been together and what you two have been through. i guess it always depends on the two of you on how will handle situations and how would you react on it.it's how you two understand each other and how far would you go just to keep your relationship. it really needs a lot of patience and love for the person and for the relationship. for me,there's no right and wrong in a relationship. because both of the partner will contribute on how their relationship will work. it really depends on them if the relationship will last or not.
1 Aug 07
there are a lot of reasons why people are in a relationships.. the worst reason because of feeling that you cant be a better person without a man or a woman in your life... handle relationship? there's no right formula on it.. but bottom line is there should be LOVE and not an ordinary love but an extraordinary love to understand and not expect from the person because it would lead to conditional love...trying to be the person that your loved one wants you to be is such an unhealthy relationship... you can be a better person but not mold and transform you into someone whom you are not.. i have failed a lot of relationships and its always been a learning process.. and the most important thing that ive learned is to let go of the person whom you love and it if he comes back then he is yours if he is not then life must move on.. LOVE IS AND WILL NEVER BE PERFECT...we always be hurt and cry for a while and even laugh and have some good times but to be in love with the person whom loves you also is the greatest of all... and not a one sided relationship... dont try so hard to have a better relationship just think of the moment and live and treasure every moment with him as if there's no tomorrow for you dont know what might happened next...
1 Aug 07
try to live with your own nature,but some times compromise to you partner is necessary. communicate with you partner when problem occur,show the problem and solve the problem. Some romantic tricks would help you color your relationship. be critical before marriage but neglect some bad detail habit after marriage.