Do u agree life is not always fun

India
August 1, 2007 5:11am CST
A si think life is sometime happy n sometime sad as life is not always fun what u say give your suggestions
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@angelicEmu (1311)
1 Aug 07
Life has ups and downs, and both are important. If a person is always up and happy, then basically it's because they are taking one substance or another. Experiencing things which are enjoyable, and things which are painful are important to a person's emotional and personal development. If people didn't know what sadness or pain was, then they would be emotionally, psychologically and mentally stunted and unbalanced. It's through experiencing the downs and the ups, and how we deal with them, which shows us who we are as people. The highs in life should not become the normal state of being, or they'd stop being the high points. And it's through adversity that we become stronger, learn how to cope with difficulty, and to accept that life is as it is, and that ultimately, all we have control of is ourselves. Going through sadness and low points in life doesn't mean that we can't find some happiness and smile during these times - nothing's ever absolutely good or absolutely bad - a good sense of humour can help people get on with their lives and be positive, even during the sad times. This isn't the same thing as blocking out or denying the bad times or the pain - denial is in fact a problem in itself. It's only by acknowledging reality, whether it's good or bad, that we can deal with reality and stay balanced - when people refuse to acknowledge difficulties or pain, that's how psychological illnesses can start. Life is as it is, and the best approach is to embrace it as it is, and learn and grow!
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• India
2 Aug 07
thank u for your response
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@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
1 Aug 07
Life isn't all fun and games sometimes we have to do things we don't like to the good of others and ourselves. Many people may not like their job but need it to support their families. Grass needs cutting in order for us to use the yard to have fun in. ETC Like when I have the kids do a mega clean of their room to sort out their toys and stuff. They hate it but in the end they love being able to find all their toys in order. Sometimes I don't feel like working out but it is for my own good. So it isn't always fun but the things you may hate doing (like HOUSEWORK) will give you things you do like (CLEAN HOUSE) HEHE Vicki
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• India
2 Aug 07
thank u for your response
@jayalaksmi (1039)
• India
18 Aug 07
Yes life is full of ups and downs. Sometime there is happy and sometimes sad. But it has to be beared as there is no other option. Life plays many tricks in life and it is very difficult to understand what life is expecting from us.
• India
20 Aug 07
thank u for your response
@kkittu (426)
• India
4 Aug 07
yes, i agree with you, some time times ,making fun with life is dangeorous, makingh fun is good but,nbot always....... Kkittu:)
• India
11 Aug 07
thank u for your response
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
11 Aug 07
yes everybody experience that. no one in the whole world is always happy in his own lifetime. sometimes bad experience are good source for learning what is wrongand what is right. what should be repeated and should not. you see i myself is not happy everyday there will always be a part of my day that is not happy but i always try to make myself happy. some people say that it's up to the person to make his life or his day happy by looking things positively. another is sad life is always a part of every human life. how we all wish that human dont experience sadness, misery, pain and suffering in their life. i guess this is enough contribution to your question friend
• India
13 Aug 07
thank u for your response
@CEN7777 (855)
• India
22 Aug 07
Yes Deepika, life is not always fun. it has all shdes. good, bad, sweet- sour, happiness and sadness, love and hate. but still its alife, It is always a wonderfull experince if u live your part of life honestly. Every day u learn new thing in this life and every moment is new. So keep enjoying the life . As it is well said "show must go on".
• India
23 Aug 07
thank u for your reponse
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• Canada
1 Aug 07
Life is not always fun, nor is life always fair, but that's just the way life is. If like was fun or fair all of the time then we would not appreciate the good times. We need some challenges to overcome, and some mistakes to make before we will truly appreciate what it is that we have that is good and fair in life.
• India
2 Aug 07
thank u for your response