she is making me CRAZY!!!

@jolope (987)
Philippines
August 1, 2007 5:16am CST
alright, so here it goes.. i am a transferee to a certain school..of course i dont have a lot of friends so im trying to have one..with that a boy came to me and he wanted to be a friend because he was a transferee too.. to make it short..this boy is flirtatious..and to think that he has a girl friend.. i dont want to be rude so i just take it as a joke.. but the most confusing thing happened yesterday.. he sent a message to his girlfriend that was supposedly for me..and know that he's flirtatious, that probably had some weird statements.. so the girl became furious about this..(even i would if i found out my man was doing the same..) she keeps on bothering me..i explained all there is to explain but she refuses to understand what im saying or what he's saying.. i know she's mad about it..but still i think that she should be objective about the situation.. and the bothering thing, that i see she should notice is that it has no effect on my lifestyle whatsoever.. so why am i doing this..?? i just want to know your opinion..i you were me, what would you have done?? fight back for no reason or try your best to make her understand that there's nothing to be mad about?? appreciate all your answers..^_^
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5 responses
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
You go, girl! These types of people (flirtatious guy and insecure girlfriend) should not be taking a lot of your time. You have so much catching up to do; aside from making yourself comfortable with your new environment. Interact with others, make friends with worthwhile ones. After achieving this, focus your mind on your studies. Try your best to excel in academics; it will be a great payout. Even if you don't land as an honor student, it's the sincere effort that really counts. Along with this, the guy might feel ashamed of himself for thinking you were an 'easy' type of girl. Just maybe. Well, anyway, take a bunch of care.
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@jolope (987)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
i wish i could rate you thrice.. thanks for the response..and i hope really he's ashamed of himself..he's careless and stupid..^_^ thanks..^_^
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
you have done your part girl, you explained to her and told her your side of the story, whether she believes you or not that's her problem. Do not let yourself be bothered by her anymore,ignore her,she's not worth of your time.
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@jolope (987)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
true!! my conscience is clear and i have explained my part..its really up to her to believe it or not.. just in case she wont, i cant blame her..i know she's been hurt though she's pondering on something stupid.. thanks for your response..^_^
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Aug 07
just ignore the girl...anyway she wont understand if you try to ..then forget them..its the best way i guess..theres so many outhere waiting to be your friend ...
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
true..i dont need them..they're better people out there..^_^
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
Depends on the situation.I would not advice you to fight her, but dont tolerate her if she goes over the line. It is just natural for girls to claw each other for a guy since girls want loyalty from their man
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
i'll make it clear again..^_^ i dont like the guy..im not arguing with her as this guy for the prize.. all i want is to clear things out with them, because she's making me someone that she shouldn't be mad at..
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
Hi! Your life will be crazy if you'll think about this every minute honey! =). If I were on your shoe I wouldn't mind them at all. I've explained my part and it's the truth so why bother myself to explain again and again? It's a waste of time. Maybe the best thing to do is make friends with others and tell this guy to stop talking to you because he only gives you trouble and you don't like it. Don't mind the girl and don't even think to fight back you will just give the guy a happy feeling (two girls fighting over him!). Ignore the guy and the girl as if you don't see them at all! hahahaha..=) Good luck in your new school and may you find your new sets of friends. =)Take care! =)
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@jolope (987)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
right!! exactly what i've been doing..^_^ she really is a waste of my precious time..and you are definitely right..^_^ i wont talk to him and wont mind that girl..^_^ thanks for your great response..