I need advice on a husband / wife work matter.

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Hi, I Need help! My b/f whom Is more like a husband decided today w/o consulting me that he was going to blow off his job tommorow ( a decent paying, hourly, close to home job) to go an hour and 15 minutes away to talk to this guy about a job down there. This new job is over an hour away, he would be gone 10-11 hours a day away from me and our 6 month old son, It pays commision only, although the commission is good, you only get paid if you sell the product. Gas is expensive and our car is not the most reliable and it is the only running vehicle we have. I tried to talk to him about all the reasons that this is a bad idea and how he would be hurting our relationship and the relationship with his son. He has weekends off with the job he has now and he would still have them off with this new job. He got really mad and starting yelling and said I wasn't being open minded and I wasn't listening and that this new job would be better. I did listen and I was trying to be open minded and I just don't think when all the facts are wieghed, that the new job is the best choice. I need to know if I'm wrong, or if I did somthing wrong.. we both can't be right and I need help with this one.. So can you give me your input and advice. Thanks