What is a ideal husband?

China
August 3, 2007 7:41am CST
Girls, among high salary, high position,appearance,romance,kindness,loyalty,support to you and health, which are the 3 most important qualities in him when you choose a husband?
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@Buchi_bulla (8304)
• India
4 Aug 07
Kindness for keeping my blood pressure low Support to me and health, to be by my side in running the family and sharing the family burden Romance a blood stream in the married life The others are secondary.
• China
4 Aug 07
Well, health may not be secondary.How can a man lying sick in bed run the family with you and do something romantic to you ?
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• India
4 Aug 07
Health is there in my list, SUPPORT TO ME AND HEALTH. Secondary are other points like appearance, promotion etc.
@SilPhil (267)
• Australia
4 Aug 07
I think loyalty is the number one thing. I need to know he is going to stand by me, through thick and thin. I need to know he will be there when I need him, without needing to be asked. He needs to be kind, caring and considerate. I also think there needs to be chemistry. I could could be the most loving, caring guy in the world, but if you don't have that spark, I think you're really just fooling yourselves. I don't know if I would class appearance in the top 3, but I think it is significant. If you're not attracted to someone in the first place, you wouldn't even date them, much less marry them.
• China
4 Aug 07
What you said are key factors in marriage, however, if your husband don't have a stable job to support your family, you may quarrel with each other over living expenses
• India
3 Aug 07
*Health is de 1st factor.. if he has gud health he ll hav a gud appearance n can earn well n get gud salary *Loyalty is de 2nd important quality bcause marriage is jus "yo for me n me for yo" *Kindness is de 3rd criterion!
• China
4 Aug 07
I attach great importance to ability, loyalty and health. However, in my city there is a popular criterion of" 3 High"---height,high degree and high salary
• India
3 Aug 07
What you essentially should look in a man is - that he should be able to listen and understand and care you as long as you are alive.
• United States
3 Aug 07
loyalty, personality, and heart. God blessed me with the ideal husband.