Does your spouse start arguments and then walk out of the room?

I am more likely to walk out than my wife. She is good at debating, arguing, etc. And she always wins. My natural tendency is to get quiet, which is my way of walking out of the room. Maybe that is my way of saying "I won!" lol.

LOL, I can honestly say mine does not do that, but I can tell you what he does do. If I am mad at him for good reasons, he gets mad at me! That drives me nuts, he doesn't even have a reason when I ask him why is he mad, he's just mad cause I am. OMG!!! It's my time, not his, doesn't he understand that, LOL.

I never walk out from an argument. I hate to keep an argument unresolved. I always want an argument to be settled then and there. I can never understand why men like to walk out of an argument. The same thing goes with my husband, beautyqueen26. Every time we had an argument, he would start his car or motorcycle and get out of the house. This is even worse that your situation! At least your spouse only went out of the room! Lol. However, after being married for almost nine years, finally I have been able to reduce this problem. Just imagine, nine years... One day during a fight I challenged him and told him he is a coward. I told him if he stays on running away from his problems he will always be unsuccessful in life and I will forever look down on him. Well, amazingly after I told him that his face turned different as if I have spanked him up and awaken him up from a dream. Surprisingly, he came to me and sat down beside me. We talked heart to heart about everything. All our disappointments are discussed and we didn't keep anything inside. We didn't care even if it hurts each other's feelings because we know the main intention is not to hurt but to heal. I was so grateful that we finally understood each other. We forgave each other totally and we promised to start a new life after the argument. Now we love each other even more. Oh.. I really love him. Thanks God, for giving him as my husband. I wish you the best in your relationship too, beautyqueen26. I believe one day you will be able to settle this problem. Just stay strong, have faith and success will find you.

Oh yeah- If we are disagreeing on something- he will leave the house and go outside- It irritates me—But I don’t follow him- I did a couple of times and he yelled real loud at me- So now I know when he walks out to the garage- to leave him alone- he calms down and comes back in and we discuss it- It’s much easier to resolve this way!

My husband usually waits until I have calmed down before he answers. He never walks out unless he has had enough of the conversation. I tend to be the one that walks out especially if i am not getting anywhere with him. The most annoying thing he does when he does walk out, is when a group of people are talking to him and he just walks out on them. Sometimes he doesn't realise that he does this. He would be involved in the conversation at the beginning, and then the next thing, once he has said his thing, he walks out and goes for a smoke LOL that is so annoying

Hi Beautyqueen26, and this happens to all us woman I think because we are from Venus and guys are from Mars :) It is very irritating but we all have to deal with sometimes. They hate when they are short on words, this is all, and leave the room before hand, hehehe

LOL...Yes, definantly...What a laugh, because this happens to me also..I really dont know why it happens, its so annoying

My husband does that sometimes, too. Either that, or he starts yelling. I don't know which one is worse. We lived in an apartment when we lived on base, and we could hear everything through the walls. We always seemed to fight late at night, after our son was in bed, so when he started yelling, it not only woke up our child, but probably the neighbors, too! I would usually end up just agreeing with him to get him to stop yelling! He's not really a confrontational person, though. He lets things build until he can't take it anymore, so when we fight, it usually lasts for a while. I would say we've had less than a dozen fights the whole time we've been married, though. So it's not too bad. I just wish he would handle the arguments more like an adult!

He used top do this a LOT! Not sure why but I think he just wantede to make sure he felt he had 'won'! 10 years later and he still does it occasionally but now I have learned to live with it and just give hin 'the look'! lol xxx

Frequently I'm the one to leave in an argument. In the last couple of years I have gotten better though. I will tell him I'm leaving because I think we both need time and space to think things through and then later we finish the discussion when we are both more level headed.