Why do people say, "Thats just great!" whenever something bad happens?
@beautyqueen26 (16030)
United States
August 6, 2007 5:31pm CST
This is one of my biggest pet peeves. Whenever something goes wrong people say, "That's just great!" And, of course they don't actually mean the bad event or misfortune is a good thing. And, the worst part is, sometimes I catch myself using that phrase as well.
And, there are other times when I'll say something I don't really mean. Like when my child breaks a vase or stuffs toilet paper down the sink, instead of making a big deal over it, I just say, "It'll be OK!" Do you find yourself doing that too? I wish I could just say the truth, but sometimes the truth is too harsh. And, I guess that's why I do it.
So, why do you think people say the opposite of what they mean when something unfortunate happens? Do you think it's just sarcasm? Or, maybe it's their way of shedding the best light on a bad situation? Are there other times when you say the opposite of what you really want to say?
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@hermitcrabheaven (645)
• United States
7 Aug 07
I will say, "that's just great," in the most sarcastic way possible. I guess it's better than using the F word, lol. I think we will say that bad things are ok, because then they may seem better. A little bit of positive thinking goes a long way. I think it makes things easier to deal with if you don't think of them as the worst things that has happened. :o)
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
7 Aug 07
Catastrophe thinking has never worked too well for me either! I try to keep things as light and happy as possible. Doesn't always work out that way, but it's a good goal!
@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
7 Aug 07
Sarcasm- Oh yes- or looking for the positive side also- I know people that do that- I often do it also- Great! I say when it’s negative- And I’m always being sarcastic when I say it- On the other point- I too say it’ll be ok- It’s not like they meant it- it was an accident- I made mistakes also- and if you yell at the kids or say what you want when something breaks- they will be scared- and it really is ok- you just clean up the mess and move on.
@DanaMark (807)
• United States
7 Aug 07
I think that is just our way of dealing with bad things. We need to say something to express the frustration. For some reason, sarcasm makes it easier to bear. Sometimes we're afraid to express the anger we feel, so this lets us express it without actually admitting it. Who know? We are funny creatures.




