What will you do if you fall in love again, even though your already commited?

Japan
August 6, 2007 9:11pm CST
im 24 yrs old, and i got merried when i was 22. still young but i thought im ready for this kind of commitment until one day I found my self falling inlove again with another guy...What will you say bout my situation right now? need some opinion!..
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@scammerwear (1433)
• Singapore
7 Aug 07
Perhaps you should reevaluate yourself and see if you're ready for a commitment in the first place. If you aren't, then its not fair for either man if you change things. I'm in no position to tell anyone how to handle their love life, just offering my 2 cents here.
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@itshalom (355)
• Singapore
7 Aug 07
Fully agreed with you scammerwear! If you are married stay fully committed and fall much in love with your married guy instead, fall out from the other one without regrets!
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
7 Aug 07
Obviously you were not ready for marriage and still are not ready to be committed. In all fairness to the guy you married, I would say that you should just be honest and straight up...you made a mistake. Im sure at the time,it felt right but now you know it is not or you would not even be considering being with anyone else. It is important and only fair to all involved that you be honest and end the marriage. Your husband may be very upset but at least later on he will look back and remember that you were a person that was honest...that is alot these days.
• Japan
7 Aug 07
yeah, that is exsactly what happen to me.. i though im ready and felt right to get married, but suddenly its not.. no one can move back the past so I need to move on with what I have right now... but its really hard for me...
@ayris77 (1301)
• Malaysia
7 Aug 07
You are in fire! Please don't play fire at all.It can burnt you become ash! You must try to be more faithfull to your husband! If I! I will not do that! Bad habit!
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
well...sometimes we have the right love at the wrong time..but since you're already married then i think it's not good... try to focus to your husband..think of the things you really like from him...do pray hard and ask God to take care of you...think of the good things not the bad one...you know it's a sin right?...avoid the guy...you're married to your husband.
@Orrangge (165)
• United States
7 Aug 07
Is this other guy also in love with you? Does he know that you are Married? If so , do you know what his intentions actually are? Try to focus on your relationship with your husband. Try to communicate with him more. spend more time with him. If you think your marriage was a mistake and you two are incompatible, work on that, make your decisions accordingly. Dont Dissolve your marriage only for this other guy.