what can i do ? / myLot

China

August 8, 2007 8:26am CST

i have a boyfriend for 2 years .and i have a best friend for 5 years .we often play together ,she is my close friend. but i saw they was seeing a flim last weekend.i asked him what did he do in the weekend .he said he played with his brother .was that the cause ?yes ,he answered .i want to heard the truth.i am very sad ,and i don't know what can i do .could you help me ?

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zaichn

@zaichn (319)

• Philippines

8 Aug 07

You have all the right to suspect that your boyfriend is cheating on you with your own best friend. But, your not sure of what really is happening right? So the best thing you can do is ask your best friend about what she did during the weekends.. Your boyfriend already lied to you.. So if your best friend does the same.. Definitely they are hiding something. Not that they are having a secret relationship behind your back. Maybe they just dont want you to suspect anything. Maybe they just watch movies together, but not as a couple. Confirm first before confronting. :) Best of luck to you.

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sid556

@sid556 (30960)

• United States

8 Aug 07

It is very hard to say if something is actually going on here but I would say that the fact the your boyfriend lied to you would be cause to be concerned. Trust and honesty are very important in a good relationship. I would be having a serious talk with him if i were you. I would also be asking my friend about it. best of luck to you

sid556

@sid556 (30960)

• United States

8 Aug 07

oops...i must of hit submit twice.

baby12345

@baby12345 (57)

• China

8 Aug 07

yeah.he was tell a lie.so was she !Form now on ,i don't know how to envisage them ....,mmmmm,.. thanks for your suggestion .i will try to do .