Abortion, have you had one, but neglected to tell the sperm donor?

Have you had an abortion, but never told the sperm - Have you had an abortion, but never told the sperm donor?
United States
August 8, 2007 6:38pm CST
There's so many discussions about abortions, but I haven't really seen people admitting to having them done. I'm interested in knowing from woman who have had an abortion. I wonder if you told the sperm donor that you had an abortion or kept it to yourself. It seems like the case in many occasions. Woman rather keep it to themselves. It's amazing how many woman do it on a daily basis, but yet there's so much controversy about it. As I said before, I work for OB/GYN and you wouldn't believe the numbers. I want to hear from you woman that have experienced this. I want to hear about your experience. Some woman decide and plan to abort whereas some woman do it, but in their heart they really didn't want to for whatever reason it may be. Woman this is your moment to express those reasons. People need to understand no matter what the circumstances are, these things are hard and I don't think now one really wants to abort. Issues arise and you make the decision that's right for you at the time. I'm neither pro or against. Being in the medical field you have to have an open mind and accept whatever decisions a patient takes.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
28 May 09
I haven't ever had an abortion. I would never do so because I am pro-life. I think adoption is a much better answer than abortion. Aborted babies are the missing people of the world and the adopted babies are the ones that are alive. They have a second chance and someone wants them gives them loving care. One of my friends had an abortion when she was age 20. She had been dating a lovely man but broke up with him. Then she went off with "her bit of rough" and got pregnant. She felt her baby move before she went off for her abortion. She didn't ever tell her rough boyfriend. Her relationship with him didn't last long. I know 98% of abortions in my home country are for social reasons. The lady has the choice and the man has no power to stop her having an abortion if she wants one.