hatred

Yeah i hated some people for no reason in the past. But then i controlled myself. I can't hate anyone for too long.

I do see why people tend to hate. It might be because they are in a bad mood or they aren't in the condition to talk. I find it hard to be hating someone for a long time. It hinders your actions and you can act out very much. It spoils you inside and out. No one should be hating for long.

Yes I do.When new actors without looks,talent and physic becomes successful they become very headstrong and brag around.I just hate them.

In my growing years and youth, I hated very many people on the slightest pretext…like if someone denied me anything I fancied, if someone won a logical argument and I was too illogical to answer back or if someone insulted me publicly for no apparent fault of mine. I was childish then and held a grudge against the entire world. With age, I have come to know that its not at all fair to be judgemental towards people and their actions without comprehending the entire reasons behind them. Even if we were to know the reasons, we don’t know how we ourselves would have acted in similar circumstances. And then I am not a very strong person myself and in believe that hate is a very strong emotion, which I am incapable of handling properly. Regarding people who commit heinous crimes like rape and murder, I believe they do no longer fall in the ‘human’ category and are thus beyond my hatred!

Hmm, I don't really hate many people and the ones I do deserve it. But as far as not liking people for no real reason, yes I have done that. It could be the way they act or write a letter or look or even their voice. I don't know, something just kicks in and I don't like them even though I don't even know them well. I know of one woman right now who I just DO NOT LIKE and she has never done a thing to me. She is nice to me when we see each other and all that but I cringe when I see her and hear her voice and I avoid her at all costs. No idea why. lol. I don't hate anyone for nothing though. I save hate which, I try not to do at all, for those who truly deserve it like the quack brain surgeon who killed my mother slowly by being incompetent. Ugh. Don't get me started on hate that strong!

yeah i hate someone without no reason at all i dont know it's a feeling that i cant describe but i control myself as much as posible coz i know that it's so wrong to hate people without any reason.

With or without reason, I can honestly say that I have never got to the extreme position of hate. In saying this, I would tend to point out that have been and will continue to be people I have little or no respect for, but it doesn't mean I should hate them.

I am the type of person who very very very rarely HATES anyone..in fact I other than my abusers/attackers I DONT hate anyone...Sure there are ppl in my life that I've had to deal wtih on one level or another that I dont care for or that I dislike (and the reasons vary) but I dont just HATE ppl (other than the ones I mentioned and even with them its become more of a pity thing than a hatred at this point)....

I don't think I have hated someone for no apparent reason. I have hated people for something they've done or said to me. I find that praying about it can make those feelings go away, and praying for that person. Also try to think what may be causing the person to act the way they do. Sometimes if you have bad feelings about a person for no reason it could be that they remind you of someone who has hurt you.

I think that it's unfair to hate someone for no reason at all, I believe ENVY is the only appropriate word to describe that feeling. But there are also several reasons to hate someone, because all bad things are intolerable. It can be because of unfairness, to me that is one of the things that I most hated because I go for equality. I sometimes control my emotions by simply being alone, because it makes me think more clearer whenever I am with noone. Then when the time comes that I want to vent it out, I long for the company of my friends..

Yes I did hate a girl in my class when I was in standard 9th. There was no special reason for it, but I just did not like her.Then one day it happened that we went for a camp to a hill station. In the morning we left for hiking, I was with my friends and she was far from me, I did not even care to look at her. Suddenly while walking I twisted my leg and my foot got sprained, I could not walk, all my friends had gone ahead as they did not have slightest idea about what was happening to me. I was left behind there with my pain and I looked helplessly here and there and suddenly I felt a gentle hand on my shoulder, I turned and was surprised to see the girl I hated the most was standing behind me smiling and offering me her helping hand.She helped to stand, she pressed my foot to give me relief. Friends, I hated myself that day, I was so rude and mean to her. From that day I learnt a lesson of my life. Never hate anybody for no reason. All human beings have something good in them. They can be even better than you. So now I love everybody.

Hi singlepixel! I really don't get to hate or get mad, I get even! (LOL)just kidding...Well, to be honest, i really have big patience...I guess I learned to control my anger over the years...hate is something too big for me nowadays. Tried very hard to not hate because i am the one who gets distressed over someone who might not even being affected by my feelings. However, I am no saint so when i know I am in the road to hating one person, I pray very hard and if I can't shake off the feeling I just get even with the person in my mind,thoughts or imagination.(LOL) But to answer the quesion on what maybe the reasons for me to hate one person? Well, if they get to hurt me intentionally and do it over and over again. Have a nice day and take care. (Oooppss, sorry I am over speeding...are you going to give me a ticket now?..LOL)

Hate is a very strong word and thankfully a very passing emotion so far in my life. I think that about the only thing that could bring out a real hatred for someone would be if they were to take the life of my child or seriously harm them.

yes i do. just even the look or first glance of the person makes me hate him/her. i dont know may be style and have you see people is a large factor. i know it is wrong to judge people right away, disliking them for any no good reasons but i try to overcome my discriminating feeling against them by several ways. just like trying to know the person more if u know you will meet them again or if just a stranger just always smile and ready to sure that you are a jolly person and not a stressful one. i think you should also consul yourself and ask why do i hate such person? is it reasonable? the n better change your attitude toward them. last among the rest, always think of the golden rule, that if i hate people with no reason some people will hate me to for no good reason. how a gud day.

Well not so much hate as in dislike. Many times i've just spent a few minutes with someone and instinctively dislike the person. Or sometimes over time i grow to dislike (usually less frequent - more often dislike is from 1st meeting). There's no harm in disliking someone - hatred i shy away from ... i would define hatred as actually wanting to do bad to the person. Look at the cause of the hatred. Mostly it will be petty. Sometimes there could be a deep cause like one of the responses i saw earlier - but look deep into the cause and you will see that hatred is just eating yourself. If you think it a person affects you distance yourself. In the end hatred is just affecting you - not the other person. More often than not it would make you look bad because you behave differently. Simply channel on other things rather than getting focused on hate!

Getting too much emotional and worrying negative things are main leads for depression