do u really love ur brothers and sisters, even after marriage?

@x1x2x3 (152)
India
August 10, 2007 6:28am CST
I mean do u still your brothers and sisters. Dont you feel a competition with your own brothers and sisters? I personally feel jealous and sometime competitive with my own brother and sister. is this feeling natural or i am mean?
3 responses
@maehan (1439)
• United States
11 Aug 07
No worry, this is normal. You are still young. As for me, I love my brothers. I am the eldest in the family. I do not jealous over them. I want them to be better off than me. Probably I am the eldest and always want them to be better.
@vinzen (1020)
• India
10 Aug 07
Hi, well i still and shall always love my sister, as i have no brother, even after my marriage and her marriage, and i dont think those things can change. Maybe what you are feeling is a passing phase or some kind of a healthy jealousy to see maybe them better off than you in some ways, or their kids doing better than yours, but its mutual then i think, as they too maybe feeling the same, but all this is a passing phase i feel, as after a while you realise that its your sister or brother after all,and whats their progress is yours too. But yes this feeling comes later, initially what you are feeling is alright as i have gone through this phase too. Its healthy i feel, as we dont really feel them ill from within, isnt it?
@ayris77 (1301)
• Malaysia
10 Aug 07
Family blood cannot be change by any factors.So,no way to hate them or let them falls alone,if they have a problem.My love is still go on!No end!