I am still in love with my ex-girlfriend. I miss her. what to do?????

@x1x2x3 (152)
India
August 10, 2007 6:32am CST
i feel i am still in love with my ex though we are not seeing each other now a days and totallly broke off. Even then sometimes i miss her badly. is this what love is? But when i think of going back to her , then my mind says that i cannot live with her anymore. what to do? Suggestions are welcome.
19 responses
@gloria777 (1674)
• India
11 Aug 07
Just try to rid her out of your mind.
@x1x2x3 (152)
• India
11 Aug 07
Not easy to do such a thing my dear friend.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
11 Aug 07
What you are feeling is obviously love. But it is better to forget the old lover as it may disturb your present life. You also can't know whether she loves you now or may be with someone else.
@x1x2x3 (152)
• India
11 Aug 07
That is really a practical suggestion. Life must go on. Thanks Ibsnet.I will remember that advice.
@ayris77 (1301)
• Malaysia
10 Aug 07
No need to remember her (as when both of you still in love).Maybe only you still love her.How about her? Do you confirm that she still love you! Waste you time! Life must goes on my friend!
• India
10 Aug 07
good suggestion
@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
10 Aug 07
yes,certainly this is love in my opinion.i am not an expert in giving solution in love problems.maybe is easier to tell to the other what to do than know what to do yourself.maybe this break helped you to find out what your feelings are for her.you have to think how is wors:with her or without her.does she love you?the answer at this dilema is in your heart.it wil tell you what to do
@x1x2x3 (152)
• India
11 Aug 07
Hi andre. You have a very beautiful and practical solution even when u r not an expert in giving solutions in love problems. Thanks
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
11 Aug 07
When i say goodbye to my ex-boyfriend, i think I can forget him , but I can't do it until I find my true love. Frankly, sometimes I will miss him. After all, we stay with each other for 4 years. How can you forget such a close person in your life? And I think I have no necessary to forget him, and I don't control myself to miss him. He seems like my relative, i hope he can live a better life. If you can stay with your ex-girlfriend again, i hope you must take action at once.
@vishwas81 (359)
• India
10 Aug 07
You don't do anything u r girlfriend will be do every thing, If is she love u
• India
10 Aug 07
good suggestion
• China
11 Aug 07
I think maybe you just can't feel good without your ex-girlfriend. with time goes by or you find a new girlfriend, I think you will not miss her. But if you really have the feeling that you can't live without her...maybe you can ask her to come back to you.
@sandwedge (1339)
• Malaysia
11 Aug 07
to get over someone is to get under someone else. hehehe.
@westhod (17)
• China
11 Aug 07
Yes,that is what love is!If you really still love and miss her,call her,just do it.After talk to her again you will know what to do next.
• Philippines
11 Aug 07
if i were in your shoes my friend i have to fight for my feeling, because falling inlove is the most wonderful that ever happen to a man and to everyone, why dont you swallow your pride and try to win her back. but after everything you wil do if nothing happens though it may hurt to your part give up and continue with life and keep on expecting for the brighter and bigger beautiful things to come because no matter what you do life is already being predistened my friend some said that life is a journey and not a destination , but why we can experience something that we dont life to have that experience ., so take my advice you will be happy if you are going to fight whats best for you, if you still love her then fight for it, but dont worry or expect much just do your best. ok
11 Aug 07
I guess when you'll have given a full stop to something, its better it ends there itself. Dont go any further in this relationship. U will be wasting ur precious time. Moreever U may end up in a mental trauma. I am sure dear friend, this is just a passing phase; U will recover soon. Try to divert your mind into something else. There are so many beautiful things to do in life besides romance.
• Philippines
11 Aug 07
Just a 3 Words... JUST FORGET HER...
• India
10 Aug 07
they say "let go of your love,if it comes back then it is truly yours" so my friend listehn to your heart becoz it never decieves you.if you try again,you may not lose anything but if you dont try then you may repent your whole life.GOOD LUCK!!!
• United States
10 Aug 07
Just call her take she to a movie theater watch some movie and you could also talk to her by yahoo messenger and may be she will come back to you
• United States
10 Aug 07
You need to either be strong and move on or you can try to go back and work things out. I am in a very similar situation and belive me i know it is easier said than done!
@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
10 Aug 07
I understand your situation. I'm also experienced that after my break with my x.Day wont pass without thinking and missing him.Days we're so dull thinking that he belong to some on else now.In your case, if ur x is still single and available its not wrong to open your feeling with her.You call her and let her know that your still inlove but if those massage will have no effect to her then better move on.I know its not easy,just help your self.Keep your self busy in your work to avoing thinking of her.Forgeting takes time.Dont rush yourself.Just live each day to the fullest.Good luck!
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
10 Aug 07
I can assure you you are not alone in feeling this way. to save you from a long story I had a b/f many years ago and we split (My decision) I didnt realise how much i loved him untill he was gone. i love him till this day and i cherish what we had even tho we cant be together. that was 30 years ago.
• Philippines
10 Aug 07
What you are experiencing is very normal as you are used to being with her, spending time with her and doing lots of activities with her. It is expected that you'll miss her. I'm sure she feels the same way too. Whatever reasons you have for breaking up with her must be heavy enough to keep you apart from her. In your situation, only time will heal your aching heart. Keep yourself busy and occupy yourself with lots of activities so you won't keep on thinking bout her. I think you have made up your mind not to be with her anymore so you have to stand up for your decision. Help yourself get over the relationship. Do not rush into someone else's arms right away also because that won't be a solution to your heartache. Sign up for lots of activities with your friends and be happy. Good luck!
@wasons (302)
• China
10 Aug 07
mybe you have no girlfriend nearby,for your saying that you can not live with her anymore,it is said that you won't love her anymore,just losing the feeling of love,i advise you to seek a girl you love and then you won't miss your ex-girlfriend any more.