If someone cheat on you,do you still believe him?

Just give him/her another last changes,after that eave him/her!

somehow it will be hard but i know someone who has kept on believing on him even how much he lied to her...the guy lied over and over again at her back but when sorry was said she couldn't resist but accept it and believe again... what i say to that is, once is enough twice is too much..so if he lied over and over again then i will always have a doubt to whether is he saying the truth or not...its very impossible to trust again if its done so much... she said it was love reason why she keeps on coming back but i say its dumb! because she is just giving him the more chance to cheat because he knows he always have someone to come back with

when someone cheat me he or she will not be one of my frend bcuz i will put him on my heart and mind the he or she is a cheater and traitor!!!..and i hate like them!!!

When somebody cheat on me that would be hard. Trust is surely broken here. I forgive and forget. But I will stay away as far as possible with that person.I don't wanna be reminded of how he or she cheated on me everyday. With out the object of my pain. I will be able to move on with my life. Perhaps...I will be able to accept him back. I'm far from perfect. I made mistake sometimes so are they. But cheating to the one I love, is the farthest thing from my mind. I'd rather be the one at the receiving end of the pain. Than cheating on my friends and love ones.

If someone cheat on me, even she/he is my best friend, I do still believe on her/him. I just give him/her one more chance to make themselves better.

hi cheating is so play out who does that any more.cheating lead to alot of lying.do not give him anymore of you time

It is hard to trust someone once they have cheated on you. Espically not knowing if they will do it again. I learned this myself the hard way.

Trust is a very precious thing, especially in a marital relationship. But, in all relationships I am generally a trusting person, I am honest and expect others to be the same with me... however, once someone shows themselves to be a liar or of little integrity it takes an awful long time to EARN my trust back, if ever.

there is a very well saying that its better 2 hav an open enemy than to hav a doubtful frnd... the frnd or i guess anyone who cheated u once doesnt deserve a 2nd chance...and this is wat d practicality of life...by bst frnd has btrayed me once...and dat was his last chance...one would have been real fool if same guy cheats u again..so y 2 take chance???

I tend not to go back and have anything every gain with that friend. I do not want to be set up again.

no i would never believe that person in my life again,i would not break up the friendship or relationship or keep that person away but for sure i would never trust that person

yes,maybe he have no other choice.if he has other purpose ,get away from him!

I think I will, even if I deceive others, perhaps I will feel very sad, very angry, but I will continue to believe in him, I do not like to suspect others, as others believe more happiness.

no, i dont want to waste my time for that person.

hey t1985, I believe ppl make mistakes & if I get a sincere apology I'm willing to forgive. +'s |:)

Sure, we all make mistakes but cheating/lying is not really the kind of mistake that "just" happens accidentally. It's a pretty big deal and it really is one of the worst things that you can do in a relationship, to destroy it. I am in agreement with the person who posted that the cheater has lost credibility.

If I am convinced that some one has decieved or cheated me then naturally I will try to keep away from that person, even if he is my best friend, because after such an occurance there is no meaning in considering that person as best friend or even a friend for that matter. This does not mean that, that fellow will considered a foe or me keeping any hatred towards him.

It all depends on what he has done. If it is an intentional betrayal, he would have lost his integrity. There is no reason for me to believe in him.

there are some relations where u can't dismiss someone that u don't trust someone ,u hv to know why the person lied and is he/she regrets but still u hv to be cautious.

I can't imagine that I would ever again believe the words of someone that cheated on me. How could they be trusted? If my spouse did such a thing he would not be believable at all. With that being said, I would hope that he would be faithful. But, you never can tell about someone until after the unfortunate fact. And, then it is too late.