If you were raped...

Zambia
August 11, 2007 7:35am CST
If you were raped and your hubby doesn't know about it, would you inform him? Do you think he woud understand you or would shrug it off as your fault that you got raped? If you wouldn't inform your hubby that you were raped, why?
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patgalca
@patgalca (18481)
• Orangeville, Ontario
12 Aug 07
That is a hard thing to keep secret. You are going to be terribly upset and your husband will notice. How can you not tell him? You will have changed in so many ways. He needs to know. Besides, you need to have someone close to to talk to and support you. If your husband is your best friend then there should be no reason to keep it from him. He will be supportive. I certainly would tell my husband. Then he may stay home more and protect me. LOL!
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nickventere
@nickventere (1420)
• Zambia
13 Aug 07
In deed, the woman must be best friends with her hubby, and therefore inform him. That is the more reason why confidence in each other is important, I guess.
david2005
@david2005 (798)
• Canada
2 Feb 08
Well I am a guy and I think that if you were raped you should tell your husband about it cause if it was my wife I know that I would want to know cause I would want to find out who did it and make sure that the person would never hurt her again.