fun and laughing

Netherlands
August 11, 2007 3:40pm CST
HELLO world whats going on . why ar alot of people so sad these days . Cause of the war,or devorce, had a fight ,lost somebody, Money problems , being sick, dont like the way of living ???? That all could be but remember if you start talking about youre problems nobody will be happy of it, You can better try to make fun and laughter cause if you dont you will only - feel worse, Why do I tell this well I can tell you that I also meet the bad side of life. my ex husband took away my son when he where 2 years old. I had a bad time then no fun at all, and I already lose both off my parents . But if I start thinking about all those things I wont become happy. so I learn my self that all of those bad things that happen in somebodys life - they will happen any way thats the way of life and you ar not and never can chance - that how hard it is . So you can go on with it and stay like that for years I meen sad and not happy. But you can also try to be positif about all the good things there is in life. you dont have to ignore the bad things but try to put it separated from the other things. start talking about something funny ,or say something funny ,isnt it better if people ar laughing instead of being silend cause they dont know what to say because you feel bad. If I start playing a game I always make the game room laughing tears, and beleve me there ar a lot of people in the room who having problems their selfs. but they have to forget about it for a lil while cause I am in the room. once I where playing and we all had fun than suddenly some say she is pregnant and - that she needs to go to the hospital but she whas afraid and the whole room whas talking to her that she had to call some body and being worry about her, and to be honnest I LOVED THAT thats the way it should be . finally she did go to the hospital and get a beautyfull son. I think its the positivaty that helps people going true life. life its self is already hard enough ,its not dificult to be sad if u put on u tv - or the radio all sadness coming out. so chance the chanel ,and start whistle or singing. just keep up the good things and deal with the bad things. All I try to say here is that if u whant a lil bit of happyness you have to - start with youre self. when I am in my garden and somebody pass by I say Hello good morning or day - some look at me and think hmmm but some r saying heey hello to you to and go - on their way with a lil smile on their face , now that is the diferece of , just let them walk by r make them smile. and you know it cost nothing its absolutly free . and it gives you and that person a better feeling dont care if it last only 2 or 3- seconds its worth it beleve me. The free code is : STAY POSITIF NO MATTER WHAT.
1 response
@kc4144 (34)
• Mexico
11 Aug 07
I agree with you, I used to think that everything in my life were just pissed off but onde day i woke up and I told myself, "myself, you`re great and today will gonna be the best day of your life", since then, every day when I wake up I just repeat that phrase and my day goes nice.