I am getting tired...

Oops... oh well - head guy
United States
August 12, 2007 8:10am CST
I am tired of fighting with my boyfriend. Especially since I am always right and he is always wrong. KNOWUTIMEAN?!
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23 responses
@breepeace (3022)
• Canada
14 Aug 07
OMG.. you mean he hasn't accepted that women are ALWAYS right? :) I mean, even when we're wrong, we're really right, because that's the way the world works. It would be a lot better if you got him to read this and start gradually accepting this eternal truth. :) My boyfriend finally succumbed a few weeks ago in Ikea, because IN ADDITION to always being right, the second rule of a woman's right to always being right, is that we know ALL about interior decorating unless the man in question is gay or a trained interior designer, in which case he's still probably gay. If he's straight and an interior designer, then we revert back to the first, most important rule -- women are always right. We might ACT like we're not right for those first few months of the relationship while we're trying to be all humble and sweet, and have you fall wildly in love with us, but once we've got you, we are right. ALWAYS. Since I'm a woman, it goes without saying that this is all the honest to goodness truth, because to reiterate (just in case he DOESN'T get the point!), we are always right!
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@Katlady2 (9920)
• United States
13 Aug 07
LOL! You GO girl! You just need to keep working on him until you have him trained the way you want him. I tell that to my hubby, and finally after 7 years of marriage, he agrees with me. Maybe it's just to humor me, but it still sounds good! Hehehehe!
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• United States
12 Aug 07
OMG! Don't tell me you got one that doesn't understand that the redhead is ALWAYS right! Time to throw him back and reel in a new one...j/k. Try not to kill him. LOL
• United States
12 Aug 07
you're always right? are you sure of that? and, if you are sure of that, how do you verify your rightness?
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• United States
14 Aug 07
see the post directly above
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@huilee (1007)
• Singapore
16 Aug 07
Well, we all get tired of quarrels... Do u noe what leads to quarrel? Especially what and who started the fight? Sometimes, its good to be in a quarrel occassionally and yesh, it does sparks up ur relationship if do adequately... But over doing it, spoils every relationship... For example, me n my quarrels too... Sometimes it gets too much and we will ask each other why does this happens... Get wat i mean? Cheer up... =) Perhaps u should start think why u said u r right n hes wrong... What im trying to say is, it cant be always that u r right n hes wrong... I guess he must be thinking he always the right n u r the wrong too... We are all different and thus there might be some differences in thinking thus creating lack of communication and ending up in quarrels... Just relax and cool urself down... THink back of those sweet courtship time.. =)
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@Eskimo (2317)
14 Aug 07
Of course your always right (even when you'r wrong). why do you always fight anyway? If you have had enough, then its probably 'Bye-Bye time' & trade in for a younger (more easy going) model
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• Philippines
14 Aug 07
well dear i am starting to get tired of fighting with my bf over and over again with the same matter because he won listen to me..someone is messing up with us and he is unbelievably believing this person with all her lies..she's ruining us and he fight with me and yet never listened to my explanations..he thinks he's always right when he knows he was never right to listen with this person he don't even know at the first place..
• United States
14 Aug 07
Isn't it a hard responsiblity to always be right. I love to believe I was always right but I am not always right. LOL
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@Foxxee (3653)
• United States
14 Aug 07
LOL! I know what you mean! I been there and I'm still there. Sometimes I feel the same way. And the picture explains how I feel at times. LOL!
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@maddysmommy (16232)
• United States
14 Aug 07
Maybe you need to sock it too him once and then he might figure out that you are always right no matter what he says LOL That is the number one rule ... we are always right LMAO
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@sizzle3000 (3038)
• United States
14 Aug 07
Remember it takes two to fight and argue. Take the high road and don't fight with him. Just tell him how right he is and how lucky you are to have him in your life. Then walk away. It drives them nuts. Take all the blame and do not give him a chance to respond. My husband and I got into an argument the other day. He snapped at me and when I snapped back he counld not understand why I was acting so mean. I told him to stop snapping at me and I was told he doesn't do that and I did not hear what I heard. I am imagining it. So I told him you are right. I have am terrible and am so lucky that you are so understanding. It is so wonderfull to be with someone who doesn't raise their voice no matter what. Well I left the room and have not talked to him for oaver 24 hours. He is here now and is sorry for making me feel so bad. We will talk about it and it will be let go. Some times you just have to get their attention.
• Canada
13 Aug 07
I can understand how you feel, fighting with those you love is the worst. We women always think we're right, and they always think they're right too, so it's kind of hard to figure out at times who really is right or wrong. I hope things get better for you soon hun, hugzz!
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@adidas7878 (2013)
• United States
13 Aug 07
i know what you mean specialy being a man, see for me it is the other way around, i am always right, special i got a very strong 6th sense that it scare crap out of me alot of time, so it is hard to try to explain it to someone
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@Trace86 (5033)
• United States
12 Aug 07
I totally know what you mean! I have two of them living with me and they just don't get it. I try to tell them that my way is the right way to do things, but they won't listen. I think men are born with a gene that doesn't let them admit that women just have more common sense than they do. Just keep telling him and one of these days he will get it.
@navtech (1776)
• India
12 Aug 07
Dear wooitsmolly, Never consider you are always right. While thinking you try to reverse the situation from your boyfriend point of view. He may be right. You should always given due consideration to your boyfriend view also. Let him be wrong. Ater all you love him. Let him have the satisfaction he win over you. You are not going to losse by allowing him to have the feeling win over you. Life is short. Be adjsutable to his views. Please do not consider me wrong. Most of the love affairs end due to non-adjsutment of the fact of the life. With you happy life.
@MrsFrizzle (1964)
• United States
12 Aug 07
You need to communicate your feelings or else your fighting will just get worse and worse and you will be left unhappy. Read the book Men are from Mars women are from Venus.
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@KrisNY (7591)
• United States
12 Aug 07
YES! I too am always right- in arguements- with my boyfriend- Even when I'm wrong I'm right! I like your way of thinking!
@kage2k3 (1444)
• India
12 Aug 07
Well you better know who is right and who is wrong. But if two are always fighting then where is the fun in that relation? You two better quit.
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@youless (104245)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Aug 07
I think everybody will believe he/she is always right. If you still want to keep on a relationship with your boyfriend. You have to have a talk in peace. Sometimes a good communication can avoid misunderstandings. Sometimes it needs someone to give in.
@sunshinecup (7880)
12 Aug 07
Well... you could show him that picture and see if he doesn't get the point. LOL I have the same problem, when will hubby learn it's my world and I just LET him live in it? :oD
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