retaliation on me and my daughter

Canada
August 14, 2007 1:19pm CST
ok this is getting out of control. i'm sure everyone has heard me complain about my new neighbours who are drug dealers and have lost custody of their kids and they blame me for it because i made noise complaints aobut their partying. they've started threatning me and they wrecked my car tires the next morning after threatning me (although i can't prove that was them but it's a coinsidence). anyway she only had her kids for a week then lost them again to children's aid. today i had a children's aid worker come over and i thought it was about her and if i've seen anything going on up there in their apartment. no she had called on me with lies. she says i leave my daughter home alone and do drugs and drink all the time. which is completely not true. i knew something like this would happen. druggies like this in my neighbourhood take everything out on everyone else. the cas worker came in and i said listen, go see any one of my neighbours on this street and they will tell you how well i take care of my kid. and she says no she doesn't have to do that cause after talking to me and seeing my house she knows i'm not like that. but i told her what had been going on with the person who made the complaint. she knew of her and told me stay away from her she will just cause me problems. so i'm glad she understood that it was her retaliating and i did nothing wrong. but i can't beleive people can just do things like this to inocent people. i'm so upset
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6 responses
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
14 Aug 07
You are so lucky that children's aid was so understanding. We had them involved with something that my daughter said..that was way a lie. They didn't leave us alone. I feel bad that you have to live next to these horrible people. But if children's aid knows she was doing it for revenge they will take the right steps.
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• Canada
14 Aug 07
i just don't get how she can do this to my daughter. this would hurt my daughter as well not just me. if she is mad at me take it out on me not my child. but i guess these type of people don't care who they hurt.
• Canada
14 Aug 07
It's true it would hurt your daughter. She obviously thought it would hurt you so she did it. I hope that you can be away from her soon!!
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• Canada
14 Aug 07
You are in ontario? You are so lucky that children's aid were on your side. I had some nasty things happen between them and me when I was in Ontario. Hugs!
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
14 Aug 07
have you complained to the local authorities? if they wont do anything, my best advice is to move.
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• Canada
14 Aug 07
i've been calling the cops. i just called again and someone is suposed to come talk to me some time tonight. nothing seems to ever get settled though. moving is my last resort. it's not a good time but considering it's going to be me and my daughter's safety i should look into it. my daughter is just starting school and i'm starting college that is all organized and my babysitter is right across the street so after getting all this organized i don't really want to have to move. plus i get a good deal in rent here and being on osap i can't afford anything else. right now as it goes my budget when i start school i will only have 64 dollars a month for food ( my mother will help out for the rest while i'm in school) but i can't afford to pay anymore in rent
• India
15 Aug 07
how can someone say this people have no right to interfere to other people's matter, innocent people are always treated like this, dont know why
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
14 Aug 07
Someone has to move, hopefully it will be them, I don't think you need the extra stress caused by a move. It would seem that you shoudl be able to do something to protect yourself from these loony toons...if they threaten you...you should be able to get an order of protection. You should not have to live like this.
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@LAWise520 (275)
• United States
15 Aug 07
I think you made a good choice in reporting them for their noise...but other than that, stay away from them and don't bring it up again unless they get more violent and you can prove that they did something.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
14 Aug 07
I should have known they wouldn't come right out and do something.. Maybe ask your other neighbors help keep an eye out for if they go near your property and also make sure the authority's know what is going on.. We had this kid that every one knew would steal what he could when given the chance and one time I saw him cutting through the neighbors backyard when I knew they were not home. So I called the neighbors Dad who lived up the street and he came down and went inside. I guess the kid went out the back door and came around the front asking about something, an excuse for him being there..But this was just a kid, with this family I suggest that the police get called and hopefully they respond quickly...