who helps you more,your mother or father?

@purple99 (165)
China
August 15, 2007 9:55am CST
My father is a teacher,I admire him when I was child.I think he have a great effect to me.Who helps you more,your mother or father?
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10 responses
• China
17 Aug 07
well,you know my situation,father made an role of hero in my childhood,a good friend in my teenagehood,and even now,we talk about big events and literature and arts as i talk with confidant,so of couse i will choose my father.
@purple99 (165)
• China
20 Aug 07
Yes,I also think he is a well-read man.Sure,your mother is a good mother,I feel it is very kind of her.I like she very much.
@ranitam22 (1146)
• United States
15 Aug 07
I would definitely have to say my father, he is the most stable of the two. Don't get me wrong I love my mother but she didn't really get to grow up having us right out of high school so I think for the last 10 years or so she's been focusing on her and what she needs to do. Which I don't blame her, we are all grown now, but my father gave me advise about college that I unfortunately didn't listen to and I know that if I'm in a money bind he will be there. I still look to him for advice on important decisions in my life. My mother on the other hand I can count on for spiritual guidance and medical advice. I guess I do look to them equally if you look at it.
@purple99 (165)
• China
4 Sep 07
yes,I think parents is very hard,they are always afraid that we have enough food and clothes.They always give us help as much as possible.
@horsesrule (1957)
• United States
15 Aug 07
I can't pick one over the other either. Both of my parents help me and my brother and our children. Usually its in different ways but they do it together. My parents are like a parent team, I guess. They are not always nice people but they will help us if we really need it.
@purple99 (165)
• China
20 Aug 07
Yes,parents is our the most close people to us.
@anonymili (3138)
15 Aug 07
I would have to honestly say that I can't choose between them. I am nearly 40 and have lived away from my parents for nearly 15 years now but only 5 minutes away. I see them at least 3 or 4 times a week and to this day my mum will make me eat around there and my dad will insist that I take home some tomatoes, apples, pears, bananas or oranges, etc, or a mix of these sort of things. They always buy lots of fresh fruit and veg and like to give some to me and to my brother who always lives not too far away. I have to admit that both my parents give me valuable advice on various areas of my life so I honestly can't say who helps me more :)
@purple99 (165)
• China
16 Aug 07
Yes,my mother give a lot of advice,too.By pinch and scraping for the last twenty years,she have enough money to pay for my tuition.You are respectful toward your parents.I think your parents feel very happy and gratified.
@wasons (302)
• China
23 Aug 07
when i was a child,my parents always ask me who i would choose to live with between them,and i couldn't make any decision about it,because i know i love them and they both love me too.they do most things just for the family,for me too.so it is hard to select who help me more.
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
my mother, she's really supportive in everything i want to do in my life.. but when she thinks that my idea isnt good enough or that it isnt worth the price then she help me figure out for the better decision. now, my mom is really working hard for us.. because i have 3 more siblings. she is paying my tuition fee and for my brother too.. on the other hand, my father is also paying our bills, foods, and tuition fees for my other 2 siblings..
• United States
16 Aug 07
My mother. She is a single hard working woman who has done her best to support me in all that I desire to pursue. She has helped me to become the lady that I am and has instilled good morals in myself. Although I don't abide by all the lessons she has taught,she is a constant force in helping me get as well as to stay on track.
@fikiabc (279)
• China
16 Aug 07
hello , i think you like your father very much,i apart my parents long time ,so i can't tell who love me more ,i think they both love me,l leave my parents self life many years,but i understand them and love them.
• Philippines
16 Aug 07
i can't choose between the two of them since they both exert great effort in guiding me to the right path...they influence me a lot and are both very important in my life...
@mrskitty (74)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
My late mom was a teacher too, I would say I'm closer to my mom than my dad. The reason why im closer to my mom its because she is always at my side and always a shoulder to cry on, I really felt the love and affection from her. But my dad was also nice but its just because he was busy with his work and some stuff and one thing, he was strict dad maybe.