Do you always fume after a fight

By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
August 16, 2007 4:27am CST
that you haven't used the most appropriate hurting words?
2 responses
Calais
@Calais (10893)
• Australia
16 Aug 07
Wow, I cant remember the last time I had a fight, But like I suppose like always, I would fume. Because you can think of what to say at the moment its only after when you think about, you say I should have said this and that.
Bala
@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Aug 07
Right.When you get mad words just don't come into your mouth.You tend to shout and shriek without much meaning.So the moral of the story is better not get mad.Is it not so?
I_LUV_U
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
16 Aug 07
I usually don't get into such serious fights. It will be just an argument kind of fight. I won't be having the intention of hurting the other person. The only thing that will be on my mind is to win with appropriate points, but not by hurting them. I just want to make them lose, naturally but not forcibly. If i did'nt argue well or did'nt use the appropriate points at that instant of time and it flashes me later on, ofcourse i fume. Rather than fuming, i kind of feel uneasy. Its like i missed out on that chance, it would be more of a regret.
Bala
@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Aug 07
Yeah as you say everybody feels a little uneasy about not choosing the right words.Well why to argue and fight and feel uneasy later.As you say it is always better not to have fights.It will never get you anywhere.