Help,who can tell me,how can i do?
By fikiabc
@fikiabc (279)
China
August 16, 2007 11:25am CST
i am love a girl,but i have not aware of but the;ove how to express me toher, i just send a short message with her now,not other connection,i how to copose talent able to let her know that i love her?I love her very much,seeing as if it be my frist time having been apt on!!Thank you everyone,give me some advice!!thank you!!
4 responses
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
Hi. .It is a very wonderful feeling to love someone. But it's hard for me to tell the girl I love how I feel about her. But I really did.. Actually, it was very complicated between us.. She was my best-friend. And I don't know why I suddenly feel so light, warm and happy when she's around. That's when I realized that I already have feelings for her, I love her so much!
What I did next?
I told her the next day how I feel for her.. that I love her and want us to be more than friends.. But she never gave me a chance to show her how much I love her.. and because of what happened, our friendship fell apart. We never talked to each other ever again.. and its been almost 5 years since that day (feb.14,2003)..
So, my advise for you is to tell the one you love how you feel for her. You got nothing to lose. It's better to tell the one you love what you feel than always looking back and wonder "what might been" or what-if.. Maybe the girl will eventually like you or even love you. So, go for it man.
Quote:
"Sometimes you just have to forget the rules.
Follow your heart and see where it takes you...
Never apologize for saying what you feel because that's like saying sorry for being real."
@fikiabc (279)
• China
17 Aug 07
thank you very much !!
But story listening to you ,i am afrad of really a little bit ,i still am able to go forward bravely ,thank you !!
In fact ,i am so real as to be afraid that the quilt declines,i do not know whether be or not for fear of not having had a friend, my more than the correct or required number worrying about xery much,liek what you said ,i will do my best .
thank you !!
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
Hello there.. Yeah.. It really is difficult to confess your feelings to the one you love because of the possibility that we might be rejected and ignored.. But in my case, I told my best friend how I feel for her.. But she never accepted it. She started to ignore me.. and our friendship fell apart.
She is not my girlfriend by the way..
In fact, she was never mine.. :(
She is so immature about it. We never really talked after that time. And what hurts the most is that forgetting the feelings that I have for her is one of the things that could never be easy.. even until now. After long times of loving and hoping for her who never listened nor opened her heart to let me in.. I'm still trying to forget, but still loving in silence. :'(
@medstudents4 (826)
• India
16 Aug 07
hey there,first i would congratulate you for being in love..!!:-)..its indeed a great feeling...and yes being loved is what everybody want specially by the person to whom you love...well fikiabc..what i'll advice you is don't do anything in hurry that may make her uncomfortable..try to be as expressive as you can and don't overdo things..i mean do and say what you really feel and try to be as honest as possible because girls can sense lies(i am telling you);-)..i mean don't lie just to impress her and make an impression..she will love you if you remain honest..and i can bet you on that..try to control your feelings and don't hurry up things..there are no tips and tricks if you really love somebody and want that to express but there are things which can guide you to be honest in your love..hope my do's and don'ts help u a bit..bbyeee..all the best..and hope to see you with rising colours of love with a new post that you got her...good luck:-)
@fikiabc (279)
• China
17 Aug 07
thank you very much!!thank you .i will do that what you say ,yes i love her ,but she is at home now ,now i just send message to her ,so i want to do more for her ,csause i know that she is not unhappy now,but i am not her best friend,so i can not share the agony directly,
thank you!!
@medstudents4 (826)
• India
17 Aug 07
well that's great if you are confident now..i must say that girl is lucky...you are so serious about her..but hey take care don't overdo anything..let her take her time..but do keep in touch with her..good luck:-)
@scorpionmanace (358)
• India
17 Aug 07
only i can say that if u really love her n want her so only way out is to express ur feelings
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
17 Aug 07
Go and express your feelings to her politely. or not sure. try impressing her and be unnoticiablly close to her feelings share with her make her your best friend and you as hers too. then go for it you'll surely success.
