how do you make someone fall in love with you ?

@fazelath (1174)
India
August 17, 2007 2:38am CST
have you tried making someone fall in love with you
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@royanne (372)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
nope... i think i haven't... i don't know how to do it... hahaha but you know... some of my friends just tries to do better in everything they do just so the person they like notices them little by little... they try to excell in academics and sports... and all other stuff they can do to improve... like their looks... in short they try to be ideal to that person but i don't know if that works to... hahaha sometimes making someone fall for you is improving yourself to be the ideal person you think you can be... isn't that nice? shooting two birds with one stone...! (n_n)
@fazelath (1174)
• India
17 Aug 07
YES you are right shooting two birds with one stone,
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
Yup. I did.. and I failed . :( The memory of it hurts me until now.. and its been almost 5 years.. She was my best friend. Out of all people that I may love, I just can't force myself not to love her since I do love her from the very first moment that I laid my eyes on her. What did I do to make her love me? First, I told her what I feel. Eventually, I realized that it was a very stupid thing to do. I should have known that she would not accept and understand my feelings for her.. I was just her friend. But I tried to make her love me by doing things just to make her notice me. Giving some gifts like pillows, chocolates and whatsoever. Up to now, I still feel that I did not tried my very best. :( which was my biggest regret. I still do love her so much! :( But I just have to move on and forget her. Because of that, our friendship fell apart.. and we never talked to each other ever since. :(
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
17 Aug 07
she should have been your friend atleast,her bad luck and your good luck,you deserve someone better
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
21 Aug 07
yeah.. its her choice.. its her loss too. I already accepted the fact that she is and will always be "a friend".. and the other way around.. I already accepted the fact that "i'm just a friend to her. ".
• China
17 Aug 07
hahaha I have never failed to try making someone fall in love with me .Becuse in my view ,love can not be used a thing .We could not make it .I think if two people fall in love with each other ,that can be called true love . ok My english is not good ,so if there are some mistakes ,please dont mind it .
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
17 Aug 07
love can not be used as a thing,but to get someones love,it's a way to attract the person and get his love,his attention,
@rb200406 (1825)
• India
18 Aug 07
i think love just happens.You fall in love with the person.More than physical self.Definitely it is gradual process.One can't make to fall in love.At least i have not tried doing it.