Marriage a lifetime commitment or just simply a skip goat?

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Philippines
August 17, 2007 1:04pm CST
i am married for 4 years now and im quiet blest with a happy marriage! i and my husband have decided to get married years back out of love for each other. So the other side of me just wondering how it was if it wasn't for love? If it was just a skip goat? if it was only to save face? well i be this happy and and contended?
2 responses
@sanju21 (135)
• United States
17 Aug 07
No my dear friend marriage is made in heaven they say so anything related to heaven cannot be a scape goat issue but a really pure and beautiful possession to be cherished forever.Everything is uncertain in this world and so many things are unpredictable and unforeseen.But our restless minds do search for unknown and questions for 'What If.....'You may never know how your fate would be if this marriage of yours is because to save face only.Marriage is all about understanding and trust between two partners ..so it may turn out to be fruitful and productive if both of you over time have developed a special bonding of marital bliss ..though initially things mayhave been different not in your favour.Mariage is like a book.....Introduction ....chapters ....Plot....Conclusion...with sudden twists and turns to unveil a different episode.So to end my friend all is in destiny which we mortal souls cannot predict with an element of certainty.
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
thank u my friend for enlightening my queries and " what if's" it boast me as a person and make me realized to have a deeper understanding on everything around me.it inpires me and show me the complexities of life.that no matter what our reasons are on getting married still its our destiny that leads us there....
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
thank u my friend for enlightening my queries and " what if's" it boast me as a person and make me realized to have a deeper understanding on everything around me.it inpires me and show me the complexities of life.that no matter what our reasons are on getting married still its our destiny that leads us there....
@sadhish (26)
17 Aug 07
Marriage is a very sweat life time commitment.Decided with sweat or bad commitment is depend upon the life partner is select.
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
yes indeed... your absolutely right! :)marriage and commitment is always a choice.