can we live without love????
By schummi
@schummi (924)
India
August 17, 2007 4:41pm CST
I have thought about this question over and over and over and over........................,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,..
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yet the answers are like something i have typed above.there is no real or cool answer.
this is the most annoying and terrible thing i am facing since my break-up from my long time girlfriend.
I really donno what to do and the way i should manage all these things.
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4 responses
@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
We can't live without love. Love is everywhere. You can find it in the unexpected places and persons. We are here because God loves us. There is always someone who loves us. Having no girlfriend doesn't mean that no one loves you. You still have your family and your friends. We must also learn to appreciate the love that these people give to us.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
18 Aug 07
Breaking up from a long term relationship, especially if you did not initiate it, can be one the most painful things in life. There is not only pain from the loss but a huge sense of betrayal.
To get past it we must look back to what we were before that relationship and see that there is life after separation. If fact once we come to that realization we can actually begin seeing a different life for ourselves. One we had not considered because of the commitment we had made to that person.
While we can live without love not many of us want to. But we can begin looking now at all the possibilities. At first it seems there will never be anyone else for us. We believe that we have had our love, but now we are alone.
"Nothing could be farther from the truth".
In spite of how much you may have loved there is someone else out there you can love again and will love you. You just have to find them. Sitting at home waiting for them to knock on the door will produce nothing. You must come to the place where you begin looking again and the Internet is a fantastic place to practice just that.
You ‘can’ manage things again? Every thing we do is, at some point, learned. You can learn all those things and handle them. Is it easy? NO! But it can be done and you have to know that.
I always thought that after a certain age, if you lost your love somehow, you were doomed to be alone forever. Not so and I am living proof. I married again just 5 years ago. I am 66 and this came after the breakup of my first marriage of 37 years.
You can do it but all you need is the will to do it.
My best to you.
