why men stray.... why men stay?
By sheenmadness
@sheenmadness (1286)
Philippines
August 17, 2007 8:31pm CST
i've come from a broken family. my parents seperated since i was 8 years old.They've tried to save their marriage but to no avail.And now that i have a family of my own somehow this fear i thought i had overcome before still lives at the yoke of my heart.Please tell me and help me what to do to keep my man. That we may stay forever as what we had vowed when we get married.How can i make this marriage a success!
2 responses
@islandrose (686)
• Philippines
20 Oct 07
Go over to the causes that linked you together in your courtship until you decided to be married. Observe the things or situations that could arouse your partner's anger. Once he's angry, you should know his weakness on how to pacify him. In marriage, various emotions are also needed since this can serve as your check and balance of your bonding, but you should not overdo it. Openness is always vital in marriage, once secrets will start, a miracle starts to happen. Keep a good watch and give him what he wants, like the style of parenting, household management, give him importance.
@gudbutbeych (1)
• Philippines
3 Sep 07
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person..."STRAIGHT FROM ME....
Appreciating every good deed or simple things you've done for the day..exchanging iloveyou's should never be forgotten..makin each other feel special...and thanking for the times that you've been together...
HERE ARE SOME IDEAS TO KEEP YOUR PARTNER INLOVE WITH YOU..
-dont nag
-give him enough breathing space
-respect and trust him
-be ready to make compromises when issues arise
-be his bestfriend and lover
-be a lil mysterious to keep him interested
-try to stay pretty as you were when u first met
-support his decisions and celebrate with his achievements
-let him be with his peers if he wants to
-pray together for the relationship
BUT ABOVE ALL....LOVE and PASSION both makes a good marriage...The couple should maintain both in order for the marriage to last forever...
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