Steal the girl or respect the relationship?

Philippines
August 18, 2007 4:39am CST
When you like a girl who is in a relationship, do you try to steal that girl from her partner or do you respect their relationship? For me, I definitely respect relationships, however, based on personal experience, some guys just don't respect relationships and still try to make moves of stealing a girl who is already in a relationship. What's worse is when your girlfriend befriends and even entertains those guys despite their blatant disrespect to you as her boyfriend.
3 responses
• Malaysia
18 Aug 07
Better respect the relationship. If not it will make me guilty for the rest of my life. Respecting our friendship is just like we respecting ourself. Like separators in a comb.
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
I agree. To add, how can you trust the girl that you stole in case both of you eventually enter into a relationship?
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
18 Aug 07
I would definately not hit on someone I know is in a relationship and I would be pissed if a girl hitten on my man. However in the end, the respect comes down to the two people in the relationship.. To have respect for eachother to know where the limits are and what you can and can not do.
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
Well just wanna share some thoughts here. A close guy friend of mine made a shocking revelation to me a week ago. . . He txted me saying .."if things didnt work out with ur bf, and if things didnt work out with my ex . maybe just maybe . we can hook up". . . Not that i was mad or anything but i just admire him for that honesty. You know what i mean .. He's one guy who values respect very much and feels great really. Thats all i wanna say .. and i dont think i'm makin any sense here at all. haha! take care. (",)