Would you like yo go with someone who seldom smiles?

August 18, 2007 9:45am CST
it's because I have this close friend before...I used to enjoy being with her but then now, she can't afford even to smile a lot. It's like she has too many problems yet she won't tell me anything. She would constantly hurt me with her words. We were really close before. Now, I have this close friend which is a part of our group. She (my close friend now) and my close friend before are fighting so I don't know who to go with in times of going to malls and all. Every or most of sat and sun, they will both ask me out. Now, my close friend before felt hurt that she said she would rather go to her other friends because I hesitate in going with her. But I couldn't be blamed right? would you like to go with a person who seldom smiles and is too moody?
3 responses
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
20 Aug 07
Frankly, i don't like go with such persons, but my boyfriend is such person, he doesn' like smile when he meet strangers, even my friends(expect my real friend).But he often smiles to me, and often speak a joke to me. he thinks it is not necessary to smile to those people who are not kind.
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• Philippines
21 Aug 07
really? but I am kind to my friend. Anyway, we can patch up things though
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
18 Aug 07
It sounds to me like your friend may be depressed. You may want to see if you can help her and not hender her. She may need to see a doctor about this and as her close friend maybe you should be the one to bring it up.
• Malaysia
25 Aug 07
hmm..i don't think i would want to go with someone who seldom smiles and is too moody. sorry, no offence. but i think if i ever do, it would have some kind of affect on my mood and i'll turn sour as well, and it would spoil the whole thing. have you tried asking your friend what is bothering her? try to tell her that you care and would like to help and cheer her up. but if she keeps pushing you away, then there's nothing much you can do. just try to be there for her, that's what friends are for anyway ^__^