if you will forgive her while she hurt you?

China
August 19, 2007 3:06pm CST
last year,she called me ,hurt me ,let me feel so sad that the world abandoned me. today,she asked to be forgived. what can i do? i have to forgive?
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6 responses
• India
21 Aug 07
Its completely upto you what you decide.What kind of a relationship you have,had or will be having play a certain role in that decision.If she's important in your life then think hard over it, otherwise don't steam yourself up.A lot depends on the circumstances and details of last year as well.Keep it cool and make up your mind.Good Luck!
• China
23 Aug 07
she is a important people in my life before,but after that thing,it will be different.
• India
23 Aug 07
ask yourself if she really is worth all this trouble you're going through.Take a stand.And stand by that decision.Think about whats right for you,what will benefit you.And you know that sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same.
@cherriemae (3373)
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
it depends on you..i mean, it's your choice if you really love her and feel that she still have the feelings on you, then let her be forgiven..sometimes, we need to forgive a person who hurt us so that the hurt will fly away..it's not that easy but it's in you if your ready or not..it's your choice..goodluck
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• China
23 Aug 07
mybe i am not be ready for it.i meed more time.
• United States
20 Aug 07
it all depends on the situation on what my friend did
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• China
23 Aug 07
oh,can you be more descriptive?
@liji0989 (232)
• China
20 Aug 07
look forward with smile,so forgive her,u must know what is u really want,whatever u can be friends.
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• China
23 Aug 07
all the things can be ever?
@Shaun72 (15965)
• Palatka, Florida
20 Aug 07
If you do forgive I would be careful to trust her again that's for sure. I know I forgave my ex husband but I will never forget what he done in the past. It is really hard to trust after you have been hurt.
• China
23 Aug 07
yeah,that is a important thing that have to consider.
• Malaysia
19 Aug 07
That is the miracle word and the killer weapon for you to have - "FORGIVABLE" and "FORGIVEN". That make her will remember you and stained in her brain and mind for the rest of her life. Remember my dear best friend, look for advantages and not to be a winner. Don't you have your lecture class for tomorrow?..still active and not for bed at this time?
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• China
23 Aug 07
i have much homework to do,but i like here.