Have You been confused by someones words or actions?
By BlueAngelRS
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
Canada
August 20, 2007 4:46pm CST
I wanted to share a story with you that in away I find confusing and very strange...
Back when my husband was with his previous wife my childhood friend before they got together...When they were dating I at first was all against my son having anything to do with them but then when I got over the anger decided to be the better person for my sons sake and have a friendship with them..My husband took us out for lunch and the whole entire time it was him and I having the conversation about when we were together or mutual interests and his new gf my ex friend now sat there and said nothing...LOL strange to me...
They eventually got married and when they had their son together she used to call me for advice..What did I do for diaper rashes all the way to what age did I put my son in pre-school I'm like okay why are you asking the mother of your hubbies first born but payed no mind and gave her the best advice I could..
Then when My husband and I got back together because they have a son together I wanted to be on the same page where my step son would not get hurt...We had a few hour conversation..In the conversation she admits to me that she married my husband for one thing only to be married once and have a kid and then she left him when her son turned a year...I was like okay kept talking and as the conversation went on she asks...Why does he love you more then he ever loved me? I played dumb but thinking ummm you answered your own question like a hour ago...
And it seems that recently when I talk to her she is always bringing up when her and my husband were married...Even though she is remarried herself...Would you wonder if she still had feelings for your husband I wonder sometimes...
She is a very confusing lady lol...
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
21 Aug 07
Oh she can be she can be and very undpredictable and very vandictive..But I know my husband is with me for life he only associates with his ex for his sons sake cuz if he had his choice he wouldn't have anything to do with her...
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
21 Aug 07
I admit I worried in the beginning and though what if she asks for him back will he leave again cuz it wasn't long after we broke up they got together in the first place...But with the way he has shown his love lately I can honestly say I know he in it for the long haul and for the first time since the night I lost our baby I do not fear him leaving.
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@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
21 Aug 07
I know who your talking about hun and saying she is a confusing lady is an understatement bigtime. She is pure trouble, she's vendictive, and she constantly tries to stir the pot. Your hubby loves you more then he ever loved her, and he has admitted himself that their marriage was a sham from the start, and it was one of the biggest mistakes of his entire life. She really is not all there because she just wanted to get married and have a kid and then threw him out like last weeks trash, then she wonders why he loves you more? Hmmmmmm that's a toughie! LMAO! I am so glad you 2 are together and I wish you all the best!
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
21 Aug 07
thanks for that hun and you are so very very right about that not only that but that reminds me what my husband said about the day he married her...He was thinking when he watched her walk down the aisle who the heck is that and what the heck am I doing here and he had to plant his feet lol...
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
21 Aug 07
I have Sweets believe me...When she brings up their marriage I am like well that is in the past and should remain there and doesn't make a difference on today...but she still insists on bringing it up and when she does I change the subject lol
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
25 Aug 07
hehehe sorry...The ex friend is my husbands ex wife...She was my childhood friend she used to go to school with my sister and have many sleep overs at our house is why she is considered an ex friend..
@ranitam22 (1146)
• United States
21 Aug 07
I would kind of think the whole situation is a little confusing. I know me and my friends have an unspoken rule not to ever date a guy someone else has messed with. It just avoids all the confusion, complications, and sometimes anger. I don't think I would be able to bring another man around that friend. The boundary was crossed and I wouldn't trust her especially if she keep bringing it back up. You have to also ask yourself, do you have anything to worry about with your husband? How is he in all this. yes i'm sure he does love you more and might have thought the grass was greener on the other side, but found out otherwise. Maybe you don't have anything to worry about, but I wouldn't have them around eachother without me being around.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
21 Aug 07
Oh I trust my husband completly cuz I put him through the test so to speak when we got back together lol...She treated him like dirt the whole time they were together so with that being done he realized what he let go in me before we got back together he stayed out of relationships for 2 years when we got back together we had built a really strong friendship..Usually when he calls to talk to his son and his son puts his mom on the phone my hubby hands me the phone cuz he doesn't wanna talk to her lol...I did worry in the beginning before we got married but he prooved himself cuz she is a real flirt...She finds the need to tell me what they talk about when they talk alone and it's usually about their son anyways...I found out she really wasn't a true friend when she got with him in the first place they both have apologized for it but his was more sincere..
