how often do you say "i love you"to your partner?

@lisa_wxy (393)
China
August 22, 2007 9:56am CST
couples tend to express their love feeling for each other when they first fall in love with each other. but as time goes by,especially man sounds like being lost memory,they don't say "i love you"as often as before.after they got married,their love buried by chores and work pressures,kids..... do you still say "i love u"to your partner every day? how often?
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mistissa
@mistissa (1349)
• Netherlands
22 Aug 07
He still tells me everyday, I started saying it less. I want it only to be said when it is meant, not because it is just a custom
lisa_wxy
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
22 Aug 07
well,mistissa,you are lucky,you have a very sweet partner.i agree with you,to me,to say "i love u" comes from the bottom of the lovers heart,it never to be a custom. how romantic ! just make sure that every time you say to your partner,that is meant.
lisa_wxy
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
22 Aug 07
well,mistissa,you are lucky,you have a very sweet partner.i agree with you,to me,to say "i love u" comes from the bottom of the lovers heart,it never to be a custom. how romantic ! just make sure that every time you say to your partner,that is meant.
xiongyijun
@xiongyijun (171)
• China
22 Aug 07
no , i don't say " i love you " every day. i often say it when we have fight with each other or when he feels jelous. saying " i love you" every day does not mean you really love him and seldom say it does not mean you don't love him. at first, we say it often because we need to let the other one know it. but after a long time especially when you've got married, he/ she already knows that you love him/her deeply. otherwise, you would not marry him/her. but when this is something happen, saying "love you" can make the other one calm down and have stronger faith in you two.
lisa_wxy
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
22 Aug 07
yes,you are right. when couple really love each other,they can sense it through other deeds not just "i love u".but don't forget to say it some special times.it can give your partner courage,support trust or even hope.
soumylegra
@soumylegra (379)
• India
22 Aug 07
well dear you r right it is normal...but well with me even after all the work pressure, having a baby , etc i manage to say tat atleat a few times a day to my husband n he returns it too....its like we remind each other tat life is all abt convincing the other abt ur lov n inspiring them to go on with it..lol
craftcatcher
@craftcatcher (3699)
• United States
22 Aug 07
We haven't gone a single day in 8 1/2 yrs without saying it at least once. Usually every morning when we first get up and before we go to sleep.. maybe a time or two during the day. We'll text it to each other sometimes too just for fun. :D
2babita
@2babita (1072)
• India
22 Aug 07
Well my dear friend,I dont think by saying I love you to your patner its matter.Love is something you feel but cant expres.I dont say to my patner I love you I think if he/she feels than they will understand by eyes movement.
Laurla98
@Laurla98 (786)
• United States
22 Aug 07
My husband says it to me quite a few times during the day. Its become a repetitive thing for him I think. Everytime he hangs up the phone he says it. I don't think that you actually have to say the words "I Love You" to actually be saying it. He tells me that he loves me in different ways. Like telling me to drive carefully when I'm going somewhere. Or getting upset when I don't call for some reason or another. That shows me that he loves me. =)
xiongyijun
@xiongyijun (171)
• China
22 Aug 07
no , i don't say " i love you " every day. i often say it when we have fight with each or he feels jelous. saying " i love you" every day does not mean you really love him and seldom say it does not mean you don't love him. at first, we say it often because we need to let the other one know it. but after a long time especially when you've got married, he/ she already knows that you love him/her deeply. otherwise, you would not marry him/her. but when this is something happen, saying "love you" can make the other one calm down and have stronger faith in you two.