exgirlfriend situation

United States
August 23, 2007 10:18am CST
Ok here is the situation. Me and my exgirlfriend are trying to work things out. We were together before for 4 1/2 years but we grew apart. We have been apart for almost a year now. She did have a boyfriend after me. I do love her and would like to give it another chance but the only thing that is getting to me is that she still wants to be friends with her last boyfriend. She was like they may talk on the phone every now and then, if he is around he might stop by and she will go outside to talk to him, or if they run into each other they will talk. I know that we are not together yet but I still don't like the fact that she is still talking to him because i feel that it is holding us back. I know I shouldn't be getting mad because we are not together but males if you were in my shoes, how would you handle this situation? Am I taking this the wrong way? Ladies, feel free to respond also.
1 response
@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
23 Aug 07
I remained friends with old boyfriends after I was living with my hubby. He also had an old girlfriend that would call him. None of that mattered because we loved each other and trusted each other. I think if you trust each other it will go a long way to happiness. Trust is a big part of a good relationship.