What would you do if you are in my place?

Philippines
August 24, 2007 4:19pm CST
i have a long distance relationship like for 7mos. now. i havent met the guy in person but still remain loyal and true to him... he said he would come and get me like maybe im gonna wait for a year.. and i dont know if that day would come coz as he said he will not promise anything.. am i too stupid to wait for that day or i should end it?? than wasting another year and then get hurt at the end??
2 responses
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Another year? Yikes thats a long time to put your life on hold for someone that might never come! Seems to me if it were truly a great relationship he would have come and met you by now. Maybe it's time to go out and meet a real person! Not a stranger at the other end of a chat room!
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
he is in college and saving money to come here in my country.. he is not rich who can afford to travel just to see me
@luvcatzzz (207)
• United States
24 Aug 07
well, i'm gonna lay it out here... get rid of it. you have no idea who's on the other end of your internet connection. he could be married with a houseful of kids. he could be a predator. he could be a woman. you have no idea. and if he doesn't feel enough for you to meet you by now, he ain't worth the trouble. i'm being upfront straight with you. stick to people you can see, touch, and talk to. you're a young woman who has a whole life ahead... don't waste it on fools... EVER. you don't NEED someone in your life - you need you to be confident in who you are. once you do that, you'll find the right guy. :-D