Do You Find it Inconvenient When You Stay at Your Girl/Boy-friend's Place?

Hong Kong
August 24, 2007 9:15pm CST
When I was dating, I used to spend a night or two at my boyfriend's place almost every week. But to be frank, I didn't really like it that much because I had to bring my stuff there (like skincare, makeup and stuff) and it didn't really feel like my own home. I felt like I was traveling to some hotels and stay for the night. What about you?
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@dpk262006 (56761)
• Delhi, India
25 Aug 07
Yes, I completely agree with you, when we stay at some relative or friend's house, it becomes difficult to adjust. I find it uneasy to stay at someone else's place, because he and me is required to make lots of adjustments in our routine, even if it is one night's stay. And if somebody drops at our home, we do welcome him, but nonetheless our routine go hay wire because that fellow does the things, as per his routine and convenience. But, it is life, we need to adjust with others in their houses, if we are going to stay there and vice versa. Good Post indeed!
• Hong Kong
25 Aug 07
Yes very true! If it's only one night stay, I would still feel weird and I have to constantly remind myself to behave properly in order not to disturb too much of other people! It's not easy and I always find myself brain drain after I get home *laughs*.
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@dpk262006 (56761)
• Delhi, India
29 Aug 07
Yes, I agree when we stay at someone else's house, we need to remind ourselves that we are at another place and need to behave ourselves, at our homes, we are fee to behave, this liberaty is not allowed to us at others' place.
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@gr8life (6252)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 07
Hello wondericequeen, I feel uncomfortable to stay in other people's house. Not only boyfriend or friend, I just feel uneasy to stay in a strange place. I love my bed and my room environment so much that I must go home to sleep *smiles* I hate packaging stuff when I need to sleep overnight at another place. It is just too troublesome for me!
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• Hong Kong
19 Sep 07
Yes I definitely hate the packing and I wouldn't be able to sleep very well anyway.
@Zelmarq (12362)
• Cebu City, Philippines
25 Aug 07
I never sleep in the house of my boyfirned. I dont even feel comfortable when I go there coz Im shy with his parents and relatives. Our culture here is different from yours maybe.
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• Hong Kong
25 Aug 07
My boyfriend lived alone and I was living alone at the time so it didn't really matter. Oh, it would be way different if he lived with his parents, no way I would even go to his place.