Why? Why do BAD things happen?
By touchnshine
@touchnshine (2821)
India
August 25, 2007 5:25am CST
You want to live your own life as good as it can be.... Then suddenly, things not according to your plans happen,
Sometimes it can be drastic and inevitable that it changes your disposition throughout your lifespan.
Many times, with just a minute or even a fraction of a second, it changes EVERYTHING.
Why? Why do BAD things happen?
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8 responses
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
26 Aug 07
Dear, all the happenings in our life, do not go as per our wishes and desires. You would have heared - 'Man proposes and God disposes'.Sometimes, even if we wish and make elaborate and fool proof plans, events do not unfold as per our wishes.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
26 Aug 07
You feel disturbed only when unexpected happens. I have a feeling that some events are not in our hands, even if we do excellent, suddenly things go other way round. I think, we should be prepared for everthing, however, it is easier said than done. If any unexpected event happens, we will have to take the things on our stride, we will have to accept the suddent change. I believe, 'we should hope for the best and be prepared for the worst'.
Good Post indeed!
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@banjiexia (63)
• China
26 Aug 07
I have the same feeling with you, especially after I leave home, and go to school and then go to work. Many bad things happened, first I cann't bear it, I donn't know why, the world is not as beautiful as I think. At last I find what I can do is trying to accept the truth, it is not easy to leave in the world. There are many things we need to abear in the future. So, what we can do is to accept it and try to change the bad things.
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@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
26 Aug 07
same question i've been asking for long time..why does bad things always happen..and why does it have to be me..i'm trying my best to stand up with my mess life..but something will sure come on my way to stop me from being successful..something..someone..i don't know why..
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@RedCore (325)
• India
26 Aug 07
I have experienced one crazy thing... When we feel that something is not according to plan n so we have to something 4 wat we r not ready.. but later wat happens is much better than wat v expect..
May b , bad things happen for seek of good things to happen later.
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@helloravinder (433)
• India
27 Aug 07
Good and bad are the part of life. We can't do much here the only thing that is possible in this case is - do as much as good as you can and hope that some day you'll get something good in response. If you are a GOD fearing person then i can say it's because of 'BAD'.
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
25 Aug 07
what had happened to you,friend?
i am sorry about that bad things sometimes happened in daily life.
one of our chinese saying is "just anticipate the worst outcome" .that means if you anticipate the bad things would happen,on the one hand,in case of failure,you would prepare more carefully and more strictly;on the other hand,you may be optimistic,and think that if i can succeed,that would be nice,and if not,it is ok,i can accept. then when bad things happened,we won't be mad.
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