'Accidently' Stepping On, Kicking, Grazing a dog

United States
August 26, 2007 12:07am CST
A lot of times when I'm walking by my dogs and they are laying down I accidently kick their leg or make contact in some way. I immediatly crouch down and pet them like crazy saying "sorry." And I just started wondering... Do you think they understand that it was an accident because you immediatly start petting them a lot and talking nicely to them. Do you think dogs can understand what an accident is?
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
26 Aug 07
Well I don't have dogs, but cats, and I have to admit I sometimes accidentally step or kick one of them...and of course I don't mean it and feel so guilty,...I do the same thing and say I'm sorry like crazy, but my one cat Pyewacket will be annoyed at me for awhile and won't come near me even though I'm apologizing ...after awhile though all is forgiven and he'll come over to me. Yes, I think animals will know that inwardly we'd never harm them on purpose
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• United States
26 Aug 07
Awww! Seems like your cat is punishing you for a while, before forgiving you! lol. I love cats, they are so funny, smart, and have great personalities! :)
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
26 Aug 07
Yup--my pyewacket certainly does have personality...LOL
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26 Aug 07
I think on some level they definitely understand. I'm the same as you - very over-sympathetic if I step on my dog's foot or his tail, and he seems to forgive me quick enough! But have you noticed that they seem to do the same thing? When my niece was just learning to walk, my dog would get excited to see her and sometimes accidentally knock her over with his tail. He'd go crazy then and sit on the floor trying to lick her hand or her face with a really apologetic look in his eyes - I could swear he was trying to say sorry, just like we do if we hurt them. Dogs are very intuitive animals, have you noticed how they make a fuss over you if you are sad, or you cry - and how they get excited when you are excited? Yes, I definitely think that they understand when we hurt then by accident! :o)
• United States
27 Aug 07
Yeah! I notice too that dogs are often sorry too for doing something. When you said your dog would knock the baby over and then lick her and stuff reminded me of something I'm always saying. It doesn't exactly relate to this discussion but kind of... Whenever I'm watching America's Funniest Home Videos or Worlds Most Amzaing Videos...99% of the time where someone falls off of something or falls in anyway a dog immediatly runs up to them! lol. I love it.
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• United States
30 Aug 07
LOL! Yes they are. That's why I would prfer their company if I had to choose! =P
30 Aug 07
Yeah I notice that too! They rush to help while all the people stand around laughing... dogs are so much nicer than humans LOL :D
@Signal20 (2281)
• United States
7 Sep 07
I have a black dog, and she's lately started laying on the black rug in front of the toilet. If I have to get up in the middle of the night to go, I don't turn on the light, and I've stepped on various parts of her a few times now lol. Think she'd learn to move-and I do look out for her, but just can't see. I think they know if it's an accident, especially if you start petting them and talking nice. At least mine do, because they've heard me yell at them enough to know the difference :)
• United States
7 Sep 07
lol awww! maybe she lays on that rug on purpose, so that when you step on her she gets that extra attention and you can't get mad at her for a while after you do that! ;P lol. It's all her plan!
@AmbiePam (85417)
• United States
26 Aug 07
I definitely think they understand. You know you can tell if your dog is mad or glad or just in the mood to cuddle? I firmly believe they can tell the same about us. Especially since you immediately try to make it better, shows them your true intentions. My two dogs are constantly under my feet, and they are small dogs. So occasionally I'll trip on them, or accidentally step on part of a paw. But I'll pick them up, or give them a treat, and I can tell by the way they look at me, or by the way their tale wags, that they know I didn't mean to hurt them.
• United States
27 Aug 07
Yeah I think they understand too! And that def. helps me feel less guilty after I give them lots of attention for stepping on them! :) My dogs are always happy and immediatly wag their tail when I start to say sorry and pet them. Sometimes my golden retriever will wag her tail right after I step on her! Before I do anything! lol she is such a sweet dog!
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@AmbiePam (85417)
• United States
27 Aug 07
Aww...she sounds really cute!
• United States
27 Aug 07
Goldie! - A very sweet pup, who puts up with ANYTHING! Literally! :)
She is!:) She is the sweetest dog ever. She puts up with so much stuff. My nieces are often rough with her (even though they get in trouble everytime they are! They never learn!) But they will climb all over the dog, lay their head on her stomach, lay down their whole body on hers, get in her face, mess with her ears, ETC! lol. They could do anything to her and she would never even growl at them. When someone does finally notice and we deal with the situation my dog will, once again, just wag her tail! lol.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
26 Aug 07
Heck, I know a kid who doesn't know what an accident is! If you didn't do it hard enough to make them jump up and leave then it probably doesn't matter, they bump into each other too.
@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
26 Aug 07
my roomie's folks have a great dane, for a while they had this part chiquaqua puppy & the dane stepped on him - it was, of course, by accident. And the dog acted like he didn't know why the puppy was crying, but he was trying to make the baby stop - kind of like apologizing. If you just brush or graze the dogs & they don't act like anything happened, I don't think you need to stop, but if they cry out in pain, then you do. I mean, you'd think the cats would KNOW to get out of the way of the blind chick, but they don't & they get stepped on regularly. Unless we think they've been stepped on hard, we just tell them that they need to watch out for feet. Most just go on their way - to get stepped on again, Taj get pissed & turns & takes swings at us.
• United States
27 Aug 07
Aww! Poor puppy! Getting stepped on by a great dane! That couldn't have been much fun! lol. Even when they don't cry out in pain they may sit up and look at me, like it was just an annoyance and didn't really hurt! lol. So I always stop and pet them for a sec. I don't really ever step on the cats, they do, for the most part stay out of the way. Except MY persian. I swear she purposly gets kicked lol. She walks right in front of you while you're trying to walk.
• United States
26 Aug 07
I don't think I ever kick them hard, they never cry out. When I step on their paw they do cry out most the time, and I feel so bad! But they immediatly start wagging their tails when I start petting them and baby talking to them! ;p lol
• United States
29 Aug 07
According to what studies in animal memory and cognition, it is not likely that your animal can differentiate between purpose and accident. That type of thinking isn't even around in really little human children. What they do know is that immediately after you hurt them, you were also very nice to them. They go from being slightly bothered to very happy for your attention, and they don't remember the overall experience as bad (especially if it doesn't happen often). If you stepped on your dog and did nothing, eventually your dog might become wary of you and afraid, because they are worried that you might do it again, because they have no idea about your intentions.
@sunshinecup (7871)
26 Aug 07
I sure hope so, cause I have done the same thing. I reckon they must since my dog still loves me and still comes to lay on me all the time. If she didn't understand it was a mistake, I would think she would avoid me, LOL. Man I know at least once a week she gets under my feet and I accidently kick or step on her. Poor thing.
@DavidReedy (2378)
• United States
27 Aug 07
I've actually wondered something similar myself. If nothing else they might just "think" that you are asserting dominance or conditiong. Who knows if they can truly tell our intentions or not.
• United States
29 Aug 07
I have done that soo many times. I always feel bad after I do it. I dont know if they understand what an accident is but they do feel by your voice it is ok. My dog likes to sleep behind closed doors. So everythime I open the door I wack her in the head! Im like oh star im sorry and kiss her.
• United States
26 Aug 07
that happens around the house alot here being i have 5 cats every once in awhile i have to bend down and tell them that i am sorry or they avoid me for a couple of hours i think they might understand especially if it was by accident people can mistreat animals for real and not on good ways but the animal always comes back they love unconditionally no matter who you are or what u are doing even when abused they seem to try again and again to please u it is funny that no matter what u do to them they will always forgive u i dont know if u have a channel on your tv that airs animal planet but they have a show on there called animal police that is the answer to your question i see animals that are on there that have been so abused but when a person is trying to help them they seem to understand and a are greeted with a wagging tail if it can be managed to happen
• Philippines
26 Aug 07
i believe that dogs have feelings too to the extent of feeling what we feel..i do believe they understand..i done that many times when accidentally would step on his feet while he was laying down..and i do say sorry and cuddle him like a baby and kiss him..that way he would feel i didn't mean it..my dog feel for me according to what type of feeling i have..when i'm sad he is sad..i know because he wont go any far from me and would just sit beside me..when i'm happy he is happy and would wanna play..so there i got the idea they an understand us..
@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
29 Aug 07
I think they understand. dogs are pretty smart.