Good boys/girls, bad boys/girls and everything in between

Switzerland
August 26, 2007 7:36am CST
Why do you girls love to get into intimate relationship with "bad boys" and then when you get things get complicated between you and the guy you come crying to your boy buds and ask why are they like this and like that and some advices and then most of you wouldn't listen anyway? I am just curious. Why not choose the good guys over those kind of guys? Why? Is it because of security matters? Do you think they don't make good partners? And or for some other reason that we don't know? And please, no "It's because I love him" or "I find him very interesting" reason here. Let's not overdo it and abuse the term lest we want to lose it's meaning. And to those girls who keep on forgiving and giving their as*h*le of a boyfriend another chance to redeem themselves after committing infidelity among others. I mean, I don't think and believe that it's just because of this thing we call "LOVE" right? There might be some other factors. I really don't know. Can someone share something about this? And then, you go to your good boy buds whom you are aware that like you and love you without even considering how they feel about you and the fact that you love someone else? I mean, isn't this being too inconsiderate on your part? Well, sorry no offense to anyone. I am just very, very confused right now. ^ Question by The Guy Friend
3 people like this
4 responses
• United States
27 Aug 07
Sounds like you have some intense jealousy and bitterness issues. Basically, very few women go for bad boys. Many of them were abused as children and seek comfort in the familiarity of abuse. Nice guys are too unfamiliar to them to give them that. Nice guys are also typically less sexually passionate and extremely inexperienced.
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
26 Aug 07
It's called love.. Blind love actually.. These girls think these bad boys are the best thing that ever happened to them until the day something happens than they finally wake up and realize it wasn't meant to be.. It is kinda vise versa as well... Same things happen to the nice guys they find love and than it gets broken down.. Truly i feel sorry for the nice ones i think they are the ones that always get taken advantage of.. I know I've been there a few times myself.. I feel like given up on being nice but i know my heart won't let me...
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
24 Mar 08
I don't know about everyone else but I like those kind of guys because they are so hard to resist and they are always the best lovers. That is just my opinion, I am not sure if every woman feels the same way out there. I could only speak for myself.
@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
26 Aug 07
I think a lot of girls have been screwed over by so many guys that they just Give Up.
1 person likes this