My Father is dead and Im ok...
By AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
United States
August 27, 2007 10:54am CST
My father passed away 08/06/2007 and Im ok with it. he really wasn't there for me growing up and to loose him now just recomfirms me never having him in the first place. When I herd the news he was gone(dead) I think I went into shock, having the feelings of being hurt and mad at the same time because of his stupidity. I never got to know the other part of me which was him. but as time went on it started to get easier until one of his older daughters decided to missprint my name on the obituary. Thats when I really started to feel the hurt. how can you be so cold to not put my actual name on the obituary. and for that I have so much anger for her... Should I call her and confront her or just go one with my life knowing the only peace of evidence left of me being his daughter is with a missprinted name..
Hurt and Confused
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
28 Aug 07
Im really sorry to hear about this.I hope you stay strong.My mother passed when i was 12 but i never knew her but for some reason it feels like i do.I can feel her presents sometimes.Maybe his daughter didnt mean it.It could've been an honest accident.If it was me.I'll just let it be.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
28 Aug 07
girl i am so sorry to hear about your lost. even though you to may have had your issues, losing a parent is very hard. so again, i am sorry for your lose. i would let it go when it comes you name being wrong. it could have very well be done in error. and at the point in time, it is over. you know somethings are not even worth it. you have to pick your battles wisely and this is not a battle that is worth fight
